March 19 Update | Alexandra Wallace released a second apology yesterday, and announced that she’s dropping out of UCLA.
Alexandra Wallace, the UCLA student who filmed herself in an anti-Asian YouTube rant over the weekend, has released a statement of apology to the Daily Bruin student newspaper.
In the video, titled “Asians in the Library,” Wallace mocked UCLA’s “hordes” of Asian students, saying that they bring their “moms and their brothers and their sisters and their grandmas and their grandpas and their cousins and everybody that they know” to campus and talk noisily on their cell phones in the library.
Wallace’s imitation of one such student — “Ohhhh, ching chong ling long ting tong. Ohhhhh” — sparked both outrage and stunned amusement across the web today.
Here’s the apology:
“Clearly the original video posted by me was inappropriate. I cannot explain what possessed me to approach the subject as I did, and if I could undo it, I would. I’d like to offer my apology to the entire UCLA campus. For those who cannot find it within them to accept my apology, I understand.”
More to come.
Tuesday Update | Wallace’s apology came hours after she received “numerous death threats via email and phone,” the Daily Bruin reported this morning. Campus police have advised her to reschedule her final exams for her own safety.
Second Update | University officials are investigating whether Wallace violated the campus code of conduct, but rumors that she has been expelled from UCLA are false, and expulsion is highly unlikely.
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March 14, 2011 at 10:32 pm
Ching Chong
Not accepted. And not enough.
March 14, 2011 at 11:01 pm
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March 14, 2011 at 11:35 pm
Angus Johnston
Folks, I’ve just deleted two comments consisting of threats and insults directed at Ms. Wallace, and I won’t be allowing any others to be posted here.
I’m 100% in agreement that her apology was weak and insufficient, but that kind of language isn’t tolerated on this site.
March 14, 2011 at 11:36 pm
djam
you apologize to the UCLA campus? do you get any more stupid???
March 15, 2011 at 12:09 am
Lets resolve this
@ching chong what do you suggest she does to attempt to redeem herself?
March 15, 2011 at 12:10 am
Ching Chong Ting Tong
Apologize to the UCLA campus? You mean to all the Asians in the world for sharing this on YouTube.
March 15, 2011 at 12:15 am
Jon Jackson
Good on her! I’m particularly impressed she didn’t use the non-apology apology phrasing “I’m sorry if anyone was offended” nonsense that elected officials use all the time. It was a real apology
March 15, 2011 at 12:23 am
Zqmbfmbg
If anyone cared enough to actually watch the video in question, they might have noticed that she was mainly complaining about people who insist on using their phones in a library when others are trying to focus on actual work. And if she points out that the phone users are Asians who are quite possibly ignorant to how libraries work (which apparently was the case), she’s suddenly Hitlerette? (As an aside, I am convinced that there would have been no outcry over this video if she had been complaining about Muslims in the library.) Leave the poor girl alone. Because, at the end of the day, it’s still just another stupid Youtube video.
March 15, 2011 at 12:31 am
Lets resolve this
@ Ching chong so a second YouTube video claiming how sorry she is would be enough in your opinion? I just don’t understand what hoops someone has to go through to apologize for a stupid mistake. She was ignorant. Probably sorry now. How can she be redeemed? People make mistakes. People are stupid. That doesn’t mean they deserve to be ostracized for life. Much the same with drugs and policing right? Everyone deserves a second chance.
March 15, 2011 at 12:49 am
ritzi murphy
She has a point to get irritated since she is studying in the Library which is supposed to be really quiet. I get that! I know how frustrating it is when it is noisy and you are trying your best to study. The thing that is insulting and offending in her ranting is her “generalization” which will naturally cause an uproar on all Asians and her opinions about how many Asians are already studying in UCLA and how the relatives come to visit on weekends. Maybe Ms. Wallace needs to be educated on Asian Culture. Asians have close family ties and if it is manners we are talking about many of us are raised with manners. The actions of one is not the action of all! It is not our fault if we are smart enough to be admitted at UCLA and if some of us have the money to study there. Don’t you know that UCLA now stand for U C Lots of Asians? That is a common joke. Nothing is wrong with that because America is a free country who enjoys democracy.
March 15, 2011 at 12:54 am
loch@seawolf.sonoma.edu
I’m sure she’s sorry and kinda takes back what she said NOW that most of the WORLD HATES her. What really bothers me is the comment she made about the tsunami. What… did your WHITE ‘POLITE’ AMERICAN PARENTS not teach you sympathy you B****. That’s a current crisis where families are still looking for their missing love ones and you have the audacity to use it in your so called RANT against asians?! you really disappoint Americans and you will JUST HAVE to live with the choices you made. <= im sure your parents taught you that right?
March 15, 2011 at 1:10 am
ritzi murphy
I agree. The thing that bothered me too was her lack of sympathy/empathy for the Japanese people who lost lives and property because of the earthquake and tsunami. Why mention that in your Asian rant? Have a heart!
March 15, 2011 at 1:27 am
Lids
Any apology that begins with “clearly” is obviously not sincere and is extremely condescending.
March 15, 2011 at 2:27 am
Pisst off Asian
Hell No! It’s obvious she’s apologizing because she realized how stupid the video was but now the entire world knows what a racist she is…also, how does a stupid ass girl like that get into UCLA? UCLA needs to kick her out…NOW!
March 15, 2011 at 2:59 am
K Kousaka
Her apology is too casual, she is basically saying sorry I didn’t mean what I said. She says, “I cannot explain what possessed me to approach the subject as I did,” clearly her racism possessed her to approach the subject the way she did.
March 15, 2011 at 3:11 am
AnaG
What makes the video all the more offensive is that it is time-insensitive. Americans are known to give aid to other countries when there’s a natural disaster, it’s just ironic how she keep mentioning “American manners” when clearly, the American way of dealing with other people in crisis is to show a little sensitivity and sympathy. Otherwise, I agree. If the timing was different, her video would just be stupid and irrelevant.
March 15, 2011 at 3:15 am
whtebioach
shes just sayin i dont know why i said wat i posted, but im sorry for it. she dont even know why shes sorry for it. girls like this should be EXPELLED from such school. if she was raised to be better than asians then she would not make fun of this race, and she would not call any kind using such word as whores and so.
March 15, 2011 at 3:18 am
Rationale
Imagine of it her rant were directed at african american people. Then there would certainly be much more social pressure on her to make a real sincere apology.
March 15, 2011 at 3:31 am
mack
i feel bad for her…but i think she deserves to be expelled…her rants are distasteful and inexcusable…3rd yr pol sci student…if she is not expelled then fail her in all her subjects….if you let her graduate and say she decided to teach….or go into politics…..u guys know where im getting at right….she apologized for making the video but not apologizing for the contents of her rants though…no emphaty on her she got to go
March 15, 2011 at 3:48 am
ash
This girl…. HATER! I’m sure she feels really stupid for her rant. I feel as if she only apologized because people are offended. I too am offended. The fact that she mentioned the tsunami issue is not cool, it is a tragedy that she did not approach with care or sympathy. Obviously she needs to learn ‘manners’. More like home training. I understand people do stupid things and guess what? You just have to deal with the issue and learn from it! And deal with the consequences. She will probably think before she talks now. And no if she directed it towards muslims it would STILL be wrong. Any race at that.
March 15, 2011 at 4:19 am
JH
I agree. she did apologize for pulishing the video, but she was not sorry for the content of the video. Yes it is annoying when someone talks on the phone in the library, I get that. But generalizing it to the whole race of asians and making such racist comments about how their manners are, how they can’t fend for themselves is just not appropriate. I’ve seen plenty of none asian people who can’t act appropriately in the library and it really bothers me that she decided to pick out a certain race to ‘rant’ on. Just because there is freedom of speech, it does not mean the freedom can be used to abuse others. She should learn the differences in cultures and to tolerate them. She does live in America and last time I checked, America is full of different races and cultures.
March 15, 2011 at 4:56 am
kristine
If she can trash talk on video, she should apologize on video.
March 15, 2011 at 5:28 am
momokana
Did she have to say that now??
North side of Japan was damaged and it looks like the hell.
endless fire, Tsunami, snowing but no heat, no foods, no water, no medication, constant earth quake and being crazy to find their family.
WTF.
Her proud mom must raise her wrong way.
March 15, 2011 at 5:52 am
Johnny Mac
In a touching display of race unity, the UCLA student later offered a second apology in the language of Asian. To quote Ms Wallace:
“Ooooh, ching chong, ling long, ting tong.”
Lunguists from UCLA are currently hard at work attempting to translate this follow-up rant into Japanese, because no-one knows how to speak Asian.
March 15, 2011 at 7:07 am
ling long
she should make a public apology in Bruin walk for a week, and let us throw tomatoes on her.
March 15, 2011 at 7:16 am
John
what should she do? should she admit she made a mistake? should she remind us shes done this before? should we give her a history lesson? what should she do? should we tell her how disappointed we are? should we really believe her apologizes? what should she do?should she just study in the library? study poly sci? should she accept her role as the villain? maybe she should just disappear..
Maybe its our own fault…maybe we led her to believe racism is okay when it wasn’t…maybe we made her think her highlights started on youtube and not in her head..maybe we made her think that her success is built on her body and not her brain..maybe we don’t see that racism gave her strength and her annoyance was her motivation…maybe we led her to believe freedom of speech is a god given gift and not something we worked for…every single day of our lives…maybe we destroyed her life…or maybe…shes just making excuses.
March 15, 2011 at 8:30 am
Neil
There is nothing she can do to save herself. She is a white racist which is worse then any other racist. WHites are held to a different standard. Had her skin colour been black no one be even talking about it. The violent sexist remarks on this board and all over you tube go to show it is a two way street when it comes to racism but admitting this is hard in todays world because minorities love living in a dream world where only white can be racist. She was dead wrong in her statements but the reaction says more about the student sof UCLA then her four minute video ever could!
March 15, 2011 at 8:50 am
tw
Oh poor girl.. I’m Asian and I think we should just leave her alone. We’ve all made stupid mistakes, I’m sure most Asians aren’t even offended, we just find it funny and her chest extremely attractive. Instead of attacking her racism, let’s just all try not being so sensitive first. She’s young, she will learn, if we just give her some space and stop being so nasty with unconstructive, negative comments. If I were her I’d have either killed myself or someone by now.
I accept your apology!
March 15, 2011 at 9:02 am
Silver Fang
I don’t actually believe Japanese students would talk on their phones in the library. The Japanese are raised to be very polite and not overly talkative. In fact, in Japan, people keep their phones on vibrate and only text on them when they ride the train. I’m sure the library would be the same.
March 15, 2011 at 9:22 am
Marie
I saw the video yesterday, and although I was offended… I think everyone is just giving her too much credit for being stupid. She obviously has some anger about not being able to study… and she is obviously not comfortable being around other cultures… and to generalize all asians to be the same… when we are all so different. It’s her own stupidity for making it public… when all of us may have some racism. Its a free country and everyone has the right to be here. I hope she gets over this anti-asian thing quick because VERY soon… she is going to be the minority… CA is already one of the number one state in the US that you see that its apparrent. Its going to be like that all over VERY soon… for a fact.
March 15, 2011 at 9:36 am
Konrad Klean
I do not believe that she should be expelled from the school for this rant.
I believe she should be expelled from the school for undeniably buying her entrance essays online from the very “Asian People” whom she just derided.
I think Sarah Palin speaks with more clarity than this girl does.
March 15, 2011 at 9:54 am
Angry Asian
“I cannot explain what possessed me to approach the subject as I did.” A failed modelling career maybe?
I think we should all forgive her. This girl is obviously mentally challenged. Let’s show this ignorant girl that we Asians and the rest of the world are civilised and forgiving.
Oh and by the way, Alexandra, two out of three of the founders of Youtube, the very same platform you decided to rant about Asians on, are Asian.
March 15, 2011 at 10:16 am
Naveen
She made three obvious blunders in her video. 1. ‘Generalized’ things and sounded like she is saying, ALL ASIANS talk on phone in library, or ONLY ASIANS talk in library, at this moment itself she revealed her RACIST face. 2. She mocked a foreign language (which she could NEVER learn in her LIFETIME), at this stage she showed, obviously she not well cultured AMERICAN girl as she announced herself in the video. 3. Most gross and acceptable thing she did is to use a shocking Tsunami issue in her mockery !, it proves how stupid and ignorant she is. Totally she is, racist, uncultured, stupid and ignorant. Again her apologies doesn’t sound genuine, she did so, just because, may be she is scared now.
March 15, 2011 at 10:45 am
BMJJ
I find that Ms. Wallace’s racist rants and jumbled statements on her Youtube video to be in contrast to the published “apology”. It is obviously an authored statement from another articulate voice than that of what we’ve seen in Ms. Wallace’s video.
It is also clear that the ‘apology’ is in regards to the video as being “inappropriate”. Nowhere in the ‘apology’ is it in regards to her vulgar remarks on her video.
Just saying….
March 15, 2011 at 10:49 am
Jack
Come on, even if she apologized, you think she really means it? This girl blames everything on anything around her. Clueless. Racist.
Her parents must be so proud. What a waste of money to be invested in her.
Her parents are at faults too for bring up a daughter like her.
March 15, 2011 at 11:22 am
Irish Girl
What she said wasn’t a big deal. Stop being so sensitive. The only thing I got a problem with is she makes it sound like she’s an American girl. WALLACE ain’t no American name. That’s a mick name, last time I checked.
March 15, 2011 at 11:44 am
Angry Asian
@Irish Girl
Not a big deal to you because you’re Irish. In fact, she was so unspecified that people from the whole of Asia have taken offence.
March 15, 2011 at 12:33 pm
Nana
It’s not accepted! She just started a huge outrage!!!!! Goes to show how UCLA picks their students!!!!!!!!
March 15, 2011 at 12:42 pm
Chinaman
I bet you I know what shes thinking right now, thank you to all my ching chong friends for making me famous. What she did was bad and her apology was even worse. She apologizes to the campus and not the people she was mocking… LoL
March 15, 2011 at 2:06 pm
CG
This girl is exhibiting ignorance in her video, but also she has offered the apology. Asking more than this is too much. People need to understand that she made a mistake and now she is trying to fix it. There is not much she can do. I recommend just laughing about this video. Yes, it is upsetting but also why be angry at an ignorant person. It is not worth the time. Instead you the time to hate her on studying for finals, or something more productive.
March 15, 2011 at 2:47 pm
Alexis
That’s all we got as an apology?? She claims she has this “American Manner” and that her mother raised her to be this polite, well-mannered person, and yet, she’s on a public video forum ranting about one specific group.
At the end of the day, this girl is going to become a distant memory of controversal bleep in 2011 because something more outrageous will have happened. She’s going to live her meaningless life and still go on acting as if she’s SO sorry when deep down she will always believe what she posted is justifiable.
Speaking of manners, the Asian community surely has some racial comments towards the kinds of her, but with our Asian manners, we keep it to ourselves.
MY “apology” to her is that I’m saddened that your mother won’t visit you to make you some food or help with laundry and such. That you’d have to rely on hot pockets and other microwavable meals that you shove in your face day in and day out. But at least the amount of clothes you wear anyhow won’t affect how much or often you do your laundry. I’m sorry that your ideals of family have been distorted by how your mother was towards you, all while teaching you how to be a polite young girl. Hope that while working at the strip joint those politeness will get you far.
March 15, 2011 at 3:12 pm
Vince
Might as well change majors. Good luck in the political world with this stunt.
March 15, 2011 at 3:48 pm
People are evil
Did she make ignorant comments? Yes
Did she make stereotypical comments? Yes
Did she make rude comments? Obviously, if everyone is offended
…….
Did she make RACIST comments? No she did not. Go watch the video again if you don’t believe me.
“Ching chong….” Is a STEREOTYPICAL comment, not a racist comment.
What she said wasn’t THAT bad, and she obviously said it out of anger and stress of studying for finals. She apologized, and it should be over.
What people are doing now is unacceptable. Death threats? Posting her address? Wishing she lives out her life to fail? Grow up people.
The comments she made after are much more offensive than anything in her video. Calling her a “Stupid, white blonde bimbo.” Is much worse than anything she ever said.
And what bugs me is people who say that are on such a high horse. They say things as if they’d NEVER stoop to “her level” and act as if Alexandra is the worst person they know, but then they slip in these comments.
Those comments are DIRECTLY offensive to women, white people, etc.
Believe me. If it were an Asian complaining about white people (i.e. the other way around) no one would care at all.
March 15, 2011 at 3:48 pm
Tri
I love how she positioned the camera to flaunt her boobs and calls herself an ‘American’ girl, when she really means, ‘hi, i am a fake blonde white chick who talks valley, and i think that this is what it means to be an American girl’. She wanted her 15 minutes of infamy, let her have it. Not a fan of death threats against the girl but i wouldn’t mind having a tear into that fragile identity.
March 15, 2011 at 3:50 pm
People are evil
*** I mean the comments PEOPLE made after. not ‘she’
March 15, 2011 at 3:52 pm
King Kong
How can she apologize for an act that was ignorant beyond belief. The event that those Asian parents came to visit their children was not on the day of the Library incident, therefore her hatred existed before the video. Guilty. The name Alexandra Wallace will forever be in my mind an anti-Asian.
March 15, 2011 at 3:56 pm
esther
Okay. I’m Korean and I agree with her on the talking loud part, but doesn’t she know that the internet is a dangerous place to vent about this stuff? Didn’t she know what she was getting herself into?
Anyways, with that being said, I feel like people aren’t taking this seriously. (UCLA officials). NO OFFENSE but if she had dissed a Jewish person, or if it was the other way around like an Asian dissing an American person I’m pretty sure it would’ve been a different story.
I feel like just because we’re minorities they’re not taking this seriously AND her apology was a half-assed apology. She should take responsibility of her acts and accept that it is what it is.
March 15, 2011 at 4:28 pm
Andrew
In general, I feel sorry for anyone who is still a racist in this day and age. But for racists who are not even aware of their own racist views; I truly pity them for they are completely unaware of how ignorant they are and that is really sad.
March 15, 2011 at 4:30 pm
Tri
I’m assuming that most of the people who are reading this blog are Americans. . .of european, asian, african, latino, indigenous descent. Being ‘American’ is a lived idea, and yes, it is proper etiquette to avoid speaking on your phone in the library. She’s right about that. Perhaps Americans of western European descent are more civilized when it comes to stuff like this. However, from my observation, the Japanese are far more civilized than Europeans and European-Americans, as a previous poster already pointed out. When it comes to manners, I find that the Japanese take the cake, Parisians come afterwards, and then upper-class English royalty third. Americans are generally pretty rude when it comes to a global comparison. She’s just a kid picking on those who she thinks will not fight back.
Have to agree with previous posters who say that Americans of Jewish, African, and Latino descent are far more vocal in their opposition than Americans of Asian descent. For me, the real Americans are the indigenous folk, so, i really don’t buy into her whole ‘American girl’ act.
March 15, 2011 at 4:47 pm
QueenK
yeah, she was only complaining about ppl who uses their cell phones in the library, but when she adds the “asians” into her little message, that’s what got ppl heated up….and on top of that she just had to bring in the tsunami situation in Japan, now that really just added oil to the fire…she showed little sympathy on mentioning how bad she felt about it, I DON’T THINK SO…
March 15, 2011 at 5:14 pm
Ting Tong
To be honest, there is nothing she can do for redemption & I don’t really care for her to do anything more after the damage is done. She’ll have to live her life knowing what she has said. There is no need to for redemption because she is just stupid. The video was stupid; she holds no knowledge of … anything, sooo there is no point.. she is just a non-productive member of our society & we, as productive members should not let someone like her affect us in any kind of way. The video was made irrationally because she is stupid her thoughts, her words, her reasoning, her apology is stupid so guys lets just not let this dumb closed-minded nonproductive member of our society affect us.
She clearly doesnt even know what is really going on over in Japan at ALL. Like I said let us not be affected by stupidity.
March 15, 2011 at 5:14 pm
Mayers
Her rant was not thoroughly thought out and perhaps had she limited her disdain for people who abuse the libraries’ confines for quiet study, okay, this would have been acceptable. It’s what happens when kids are raised without filters, etiquettes, and manners and that spans every culture. People just need to be reminded. FTR, I’m Asian as well and I agree with the general pretense that people are rude and careless with their cell phones in a place where intense study is requisite. It’s too bad that her observations singularly pointed out Asians.
March 15, 2011 at 5:14 pm
ritzi murphy
Ms. Wallace is a ticking time bomb! If she will not be reprimanded UCLA will be breeding a monster! It’s scary to think someday she might teach or work someday and what will she teach? She is a hater and its obvious she does not appreciate diversity. She is deluded if she thinks that a weak apology will make up for her racist comments.
March 15, 2011 at 5:59 pm
noodlegrl318
The problem was she directed it to the asian community. If she would have posted a rant about how she hates it that all people talk in the library it would have been different.
I agree with Kristine, if she can talk crap on video I’d like to see a video apology to the ENTIRE asian community. She should be expelled. I would NEVER and will NEVER apply to a school that allows someone like her to remain a student after such disgusting, and despicable behavior. Her mama obviously taught her right.
March 15, 2011 at 6:19 pm
ken
enough talk with this all american girl, toss her to the fire, how about ship her to Japan and experience the tragedy herself! then she will know the meaning of life is all about!
March 15, 2011 at 6:29 pm
Mayers
Wow. I just LOVE the overboard responses.
I hope you people get second chances at anything in life.
March 15, 2011 at 6:49 pm
J
This is not even newsworthy. She has just invoked the enmity of just about everyone with half a heart, including those mixed Caucasian-Asian couples and their children. How did she get into UCLA? Japan has just been ruined by a natural disaster. She doesn’t have the wherewithal to be vocal against a Caucasian enemy of humanity that would crush her with their pinkie, but she is brave and righteous enough to rub salt in the wounds of natural disaster victims. Japan is home to millions of innocent people including Caucasians. How spectacular of UCLA to host someone like this.
*Alexandra Wallace, UCLA Ku Klux Klan, Nazi Aryan Nation Club High Witch
*UCLA hosts and gives political protection and support to Aryan Nation, Nazis, and Ku Klux Klan. The precedent being Alexandra Wallace, March 15, 2011.
March 15, 2011 at 8:05 pm
ting tong
OBVIOUSLY, she’s blonde haired and blue eyes. what does she know? to wear a shirt that only covers half of her chest? too bad her PROUD MOM and everybody that came with her from the back of the trailer doesn’t come over to her apartment to cook and clean for her on the weekends. I agree, it is rude to be on the phone in the library but it’s not only ASIANS who does it. It’s a SHAME. if i were her, i would hide for the rest of my life. It could’ve been a mistake but make it once only. The apology was full of BS. couldn’t have been a SECOND mistake. This blonde chick is just DUMB! i say, expell from UCLA. that’ll DO!
March 15, 2011 at 8:07 pm
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March 15, 2011 at 8:30 pm
pityplug
yea I have to say the video is pretty ignorant , but really what do you expect from a dizzy blonde from the valley, philosophical genius? I think a huge issue here is her ignorance and that expelling her from ucla would be counterproductive as maybe she will learn something over the next few years of school. I am not willing to defend her video in any way but I also think that the people making death threats, reverse racist comments as well as sexist comments are definetely no better then her, she already lost the moral high ground and here are a bunch of reactionary morons are giving it back to her.
March 15, 2011 at 8:33 pm
Lulu
Age does not matter. Someone can be her age and will not be this dumb, making a video during finals week??
She is a COLLEGE student, not a little pre-schooler. She should had known better than posting her racist rants on youtube. Her parents should be ashamed to have a daughter like her.
how dare her bring in the tsunami in Japan like it is a joke. People does not have food, water, shelter, electricity right now in Japan and she have the nerve to talk about it like its funny??? KICK HER OUT OF UCLA!!!
Maybe she did this on purpose in order to reschedule her finals.
March 15, 2011 at 8:50 pm
That One Asian Guy
To the entire UCLA campus, really? Fuck her, she offended ALL Asian people.
March 15, 2011 at 9:03 pm
Johnny Appleseed
Something stupid this way comes. This is what happens when idiots are given technology, and opposable thumbs. If I were her political science professor, I would have failed her the moment her rant was posted. Are you serious? It’s almost laughable how stupid this was. When I heard her rant I was thinking ok, the political thing to do would be to issue a public statement, undergo sensitivity training, drug rehab, something to declare her intent in either making amends, or recognizing the seriousness of her actions. She declines an interview from the associated press, she deletes the you tube channel without taking the time to use the platform where she began her fall from ” GRACE” ( lol yea right ) to apologize to her now captivated audience. The only connection this Wallace girl should have with politics, is adequately servicing our wayward politicians in the confines of a sleazy motel room. As for Scott I don’t believe her comments were so outrageous in the grand scheme of things, the outrage is the timing. 3 weeks ago I doubt it would have even made it beyond a “hoard” of angry comments. If a group of ucla Asians posted a rant video September 12, 2001 about white Americans there would be the same backlash. Maybe next time she will use some American common sense, and keep her stupidity to herself, or at the very least choose a different time, and slightly less universal audience to display her ” American Manners” she was raised with.
March 15, 2011 at 9:10 pm
Steve
F’ing Americans. This the only country that has people like the Wallace cunt. No other country comes close to the amount of morons living here..and the apple does not fall too far from the tree. Capital punishment should be reserved for any individual, based on the circumstances at hand. WHAT A STUPID CUNT!!!!!!!!!!!
March 15, 2011 at 10:01 pm
AsianAmericanCollegeStudent
This in no way warranted hate. Yes, she made poor decisions in what she chose to say and in her ignorant generalizations.
I am of half Asian and half Anglo-Saxon decent. No matter where I went I stumbled across racism. Be it in Asia or here in America in my hometown. I’ve been chased by hordes of kids throwing rocks, been refused a seat on a school bus, had bricks thrown threw my window. Due to my mixed heritage people often mistake me for Native American and I’ve experienced racism from that bent, too.
But honestly, she never used the word Gook or Chink. Yeah, she made offensive and tasteless comments. However, no one really took her rant seriously. Almost everyone saw it for what it was. Her career, whatever it was she was seeking, is going to be a tough one to find. She ruined her own reputation and chances all on her own.
In the grand scheme of things, the damage wrought by Miss Alexandra Wallace is truly slim to none aside from igniting some serious righteous indignation.
March 15, 2011 at 11:05 pm
yems
why is she only apologizing to UCLA students alone? now, this made me think that she isn’t really sincere with her apology. take note that she said that she would understand if there would be people who will not accept her apology. duhh! Is she really serious? she offended ASian people, want me to stress that out? ASIAN people not only UCLA ASIAN students. well, whatever i say it wouldn’t change a thing.. whatever action the school would take only serves her right :) “THANK YOU FOR READING and HAVE A NICE DAY”
March 15, 2011 at 11:23 pm
azns r taking over
this bimbo needs to be expelled and blackballed from all post secondary schools except those in asia. she needs to be schooled by a tiger mom. how she got into ucla is beyond me. the only way ucla can redeem itself for making the mistake of allowing such a racist to enrol in their school is to set a precedent and oust her and show this on you tube. of course a blonde girl with doughy tittays will feel threatened by asians. nuff said. kkk gal is kvetching that she needs peace and quiet to study in a library yet she is able to find the time to video herself and post it on you tube. i wonder what she has to say about african american people, baby mamas, dead beat dads, rap, and violence in america.
March 16, 2011 at 12:14 am
Amit
If she is so irritated by noise in the library, why can’t she buy Bose noise canceling headphones for $350? I wear them in library and I can’t hear any background noises. Technology is very advanced nowadays.
March 16, 2011 at 12:15 am
Troy
The weather is beautiful in LA, Spring Break, St. Patty’s Day, March Madness is upon us, and the Lakers are going for a 3-peat. Put her on probation and lets enjoy life because it is just way too short.
FIGHT ON! hahaha
March 16, 2011 at 12:24 am
Kaleigh
You know what, I Have issues with people talking on their cell phones when they are in the library too, but an ethical person would just take that problem up with the person in charge of the library. Not post stupid racist crap onto You-tube or any online site. But the moment she started to single out Asians, and mock the way our languages sound, that is unethical and if you ask me not appropriate conduct for an adult. If people get fired from their jobs for simply saying bad things about one single employee and posting it on face-book, or students get expelled because of plagiarism, then she shouldn’t be shown any kind of generosity by the UCLA faculty. Plus I find it highly outrageous that she even thought it was okay to mention the Tsunami in Japan. I am Japanese, and actually have family who are currently dealing with this catastrophe out in Japan, and that does not sit well with me. I am not a violent person and I don’t like that people are sending death threats towards her, but she can’t get away with only a slap on the hand. She isn’t a child, and taking responsibility for your actions is what an adult should do. No simple apology is enough to make up for what she has done.
March 16, 2011 at 12:44 am
AsianAmericanCollegeStudent
Kaleigh,
I feel like anything I can say would sound inane and worthless regards to your family in Japan. But feel I should say something. I have been watching closely. And my heart goes out to everyone and wish I could do more than that, hopefully soon I will have a chance to contribute something.
March 16, 2011 at 12:52 am
Rosie
Stupid white girl just wanting attention, little did she know her ass got in trouble for it. If she didn’t notice, she looked like a total dumb blonde with fake boobs wanting to make it big in this world…. WRONG way to do it… What a loser… Stupid White Girl – Asians Rule!!
March 16, 2011 at 1:09 am
PINK
why did she only offer her apology to the entire UCLA campus??? What about about the others???
March 16, 2011 at 1:19 am
jj
I don’t accept her apology!
If Ms Wallace can post a video condemning about Asians, their culture and manners and quoting Japan’s horrible disaster as an example in her video – then she NEEDS to apologize in a video and re-post it on youtube.
Just saying she is sorry doesn’t mean anything!!
She has obviously violated UCLA school of conduct and UCLA NEEDS to response accordingly.
March 16, 2011 at 1:26 am
Jennifer
It’s sad to see someone that will bring up the tragedy of Japan in order to make her point. I understand that not everyone will get along and not everyone will like each other, but to use Japan’s catastrophe to make a silly point… really? That’s just sad. It just shows how unreasonable she was in her “rant.”
March 16, 2011 at 1:41 am
equal protection
Wow.
Dozens of comments are far more racist, offensive, and hateful than this girl’s complaints, but as long the hate and racism are directed at whites, it seems like anything goes. Whites are the least racist people on the face of the earth, but if you keep abusing us at some point the sleeping giant will wake up and flex its muscles.
And then you have the commenters who think she should be expelled despite the fact that expelling her is 100% ILLEGAL under the Constitution. Yeah, what a bunch of real Americans we have here.
March 16, 2011 at 1:44 am
equal protection
why did she only offer her apology to the entire UCLA campus??? What about about the others???
What others? She didn’t say anything about anyone else.
March 16, 2011 at 1:46 am
Vanessa
Awkwardly stated and insincere, imo.
It’s a disappointing apology, to say the least.
March 16, 2011 at 1:57 am
Bey
Big deal. She’s just another American who couldn’t make the distinction between Chinese and Japanese. In general, Chinese are rude and don’t have manners. On the other hand, Japanese have the best manners. You can’t just group them together as “Asians” in one category, because they’re so different. I say what she’s saying has some truth about Chinese people, but she clearly didn’t understand the distinction between Chinese and Japanese. A lot of Chinese hate Japanese, and some Japanese hate them back – it’s just the plain reality. I read that a lot of Chinese and Koreans are laughing at what has happened to Japan with the Tsunami and all.
Those that are reading this may say – “No, that’s not true. – but either you’re not facing the reality, or you’re just simply ignorant.
Just leave her alone. She’s just ignorant and that’s all. I say you guys are just as ignorant by attacking her. Don’t you know that the highest potential threat to USA is China?? We might plunge into war with China anytime, you know. Let’s see what you guys have to say when that happens!
March 16, 2011 at 3:59 am
k
Apology for UCLA campus, not for Asians. she don’t feel bad about Asians. only thinking about school. I think, she really hate Asians. I really want to ask her mom. how and what she teach her daughter.
March 16, 2011 at 4:25 am
JR
I agree with you Bey, lots of Chinese & Korean are laughing at what has happened at Japan. This girl with a nice set of rack, just happened to make a mistake by thinking outloud, we all have done it at one point. Was it stupid of here to film it? YES! Bottom line, there are bigger fish to fry, look at what’s going in the world and you will see this is petty stuff. Lets talk about something more interesting, like how HAARP really works & the truth about 9/11.
March 16, 2011 at 4:56 am
Deported-Recordings
If this bitch could understand what was going on around here then she would’ve already been on her horse like a true American and gone back to the south since (fortunately or unfortunately) California’s job market wont have anything to offer her in the field she is studying(!) in… On the other hand, doors are always open for Alexandra in SFV and its well known industry just like her giant holes. She should call mommy and ask her what to do, if mommy isn’t still dancing on the pole or riding the pool boy cause I could tell someone really taught her the American Manners!
March 16, 2011 at 5:05 am
Dan
@JR and BEY. LOL? Nobody laughs at tragic events where people’s lives are involved. I’m Korean. Many Koreans that I know have friends and family that were there and were involved with the tragedy.
Back to this girl though. She would’ve been fine if she left out the whole part about the family visits and the tsunami. Relatives visiting loved ones away at college is called family values or love. And the tsunami should just be a no brainer
March 16, 2011 at 10:33 am
AsianAmericanCollegeStudent
@JR and BEY,
I find that to be as racist as the remarks you are decrying. I’m Korean. And there isn’t a single member of my Korean extended family laughing at this.
“Those that are reading this may say – “No, that’s not true. – but either you’re not facing the reality, or you’re just simply ignorant.”
You are going to have to show me the article in which you “read” this. If you don’t have evidence stop making vast generalizations… you are just as bad as the girl in the video.
March 16, 2011 at 11:30 am
Bey
@AsianAmericanCollegeStudent and Dan
I don’t need to prove you anything, but since you seek to be educated, I will present you with some opportunities.
http://shanghaiscrap.com/?p=6468
http://blogs.wsj.com/chinarealtime/2011/03/11/china-offers-japan-support-for-quake-relief/
I know Chinese and Japanese, so I’ve read other original sources – but it’s common knowledge. You guys who just want to attack at other people’s comments are hypocrites, or ignorant bastards none different than this library girl. Know the reality!
AND, I know you can’t be humble about it after reading these articles, cause you guys are always about attacking other people, and you just want to be defensive.
I suggest you read more books, and know the tension between eastern Asian countries. Don’t you even remember what happened with the Chinese boat incident just recently??
Also, I didn’t say “majority of the people” – I said, “a lot of” and “some” which is the close proximity of the reality. They are having mixed feelings.
I bet even your extended families in Korea (if they are in Korea) know about this, and are just trying to hide their mixed feelings too.
All in all, you guys’ (majority of you guys who responded to this library girl’s rant in a negative way) perception of the reality is limited and somewhat skewed. You so-called “Asians” are upset because you think it was a racist joke. You don’t understand the magnitude of racism in China, Korea, and Japan towards one another. China just wants to invade other countries, period.
I am disappointed in the reality of how ignorant common American college students are. They only teach you convenient truths of the reality??
March 16, 2011 at 11:38 am
AJ Edwards
Apologies issues after death threats. Obviously, someone told her to issue the apology. Where are the parents? I want to see what kind of red-neck trash they are? ;)
Anyway, 2 videos in response to Alexandra that need to be seen. First one is a music response, and is funny.
March 16, 2011 at 11:49 am
AsianAmericanCollegeStudent
“You guys.” Here you go still making assumptions and generalizations while telling me I’m ignorant while you continue to make racist generalizations.
You do not know my family. I have experienced racism far worse than her words from Korean, Chinese, Japanese and white. And here you go assuming further that I don’t understand the tension between the Asian countries. “So-Called Asians.” You have got to be kidding me.
It is sad that some people seem to feel the tragedy in Japan is somehow deserved. I don’t agree with them. Neither does my family. You have no idea what my family thinks or feels and I frankly don’t care whether you believe they are in Korea or not.
Simply because I disagree, and disagree strongly is not an attack. I disagree with the generalizations you are making and continue to make.
At least I can have an intelligent discourse on the subject without resorting to childish name calling.
March 16, 2011 at 12:47 pm
Bey
@AsianAmericanCollegeStudent
Your comment is without substance and so absurd, this will be the end of my post.
What’s wrong with generalizations, and why do I need to know your family??
I personally feel deeply impacted by what happened in Japan, and I am personally involved, unlike you.
You simply do not understand what I wrote. It is pointless to try to educate someone who does not listen. This is the end of the discussion.
March 16, 2011 at 12:54 pm
AsianAmericanCollegeStudent
“I personally feel deeply impacted by what happened in Japan, and I am personally involved, unlike you” = yet another assumption and another unfounded dig and insult.
“What’s wrong with generalizations” = generalizations are what racism is based on.
March 16, 2011 at 12:59 pm
Jane
I can’t see her getting expelled over something like this, but if she doesn’t voluntarily withdraw from UCLA, can she survive the next year on campus? Dun-dun-dun.
For the record, as an Asian I find her rant irritating and obnoxious and I don’t feel compelled to have any respect for her. As a female, though, I’ve found all the misogynistic replies that she’s received just as appalling. Give me a break. She’s trashing Asians as a white person… and people are getting back at her by trashing her as a woman instead of as a white person?
Fewer comments about her looks or her sex life, please. If the average white male made a similar video, most people would focus on what he’d said instead of resorting to calling him “ugly,” “fat,” or “slutty.” And most definitely, no one would decide to forgive him because he had a big penis and looked “hot” (and maybe young? Alexandra is about 21 – although she can still pass as “a girl” her male counterpart would definitely have been considered “a man”).
March 16, 2011 at 1:15 pm
Kim
Can’t we just stop already? Yeah, I’m Asian, and I feel personally insulted by this video too, but I think she’s received enough hate over this thing. I mean, people all over the world has seen this video already, and obviously it has jeopardized all her chances of getting a good job or have good relationship statuses…
She’s apologized and I’m pretty sure this was a joke for her, something to laugh about. I know everyone’s hung up on the thing she said about the tsunami, but honestly I think she was just saying it off the top of her head. Before any of you say anything, I was personally affected by the tsunami myself.
Yeah, I feel insulted by what she said and all, but really, let’s tone it down a bit here.
March 16, 2011 at 4:09 pm
Ching Chong Ting
Imagine that instead of Asians, she was ranting about Blacks or Jews. That would have been much worse. If seems that in USA, polititical correctness only applies to those minorities with voting power…Asians don’t have much poltiical powers and it is OK to offend Asians in this country…
March 16, 2011 at 4:15 pm
Kim
Wait, what?
“It’s OK to offend Asians in this country…”
Um, excuse me, but we Asians have voting power too. Like I said before, I do feel personally insulted by that video, and no, imagining that she was ranting about Blacks or Jews does not help – in any such case a group of people will feel insulted.
I don’t know if you’re Asian or not, @Ching Chong Ting, but your statement about it being alright to offend Asians because we don’t have much political power?
Yeah, WRONG.
March 16, 2011 at 4:38 pm
thalooch
I was offended by the video as a Bruin, and as a human being (we are all one family, regardless of race). I am not Asian, however I thought the video was racist towards Asians, and disgraceful towards UCLA. I don’t think her apology is sufficient or adequate, however it is an apology nonetheless, and a step in the right direction.
However the backlash and negativity towards her and UCLA is unacceptable. Already any political career she could ever hope to have (she is a poli sci major) is dead. She’s going to have a really hard time building any career for that matter, let alone making friends.
Trolling strangers on internet forums as a result of her ignorance is NOT productive behavior. This only creates further racial divisons and tensions.
This is a student activism site. Activism is about creating positive change, and in my opinion, through non-violence. I find a lot of the comments herein to be violent, and I would challenge those who are so quick to judge and insult others whether or not this is an appropriate form of activism.
Frankly I think this issue has gotten more than its fair share of airtime. There are much more important and relevant issues that we can be discussing, even issues that surround why her ideas are even present in our societal consciousness.
Lastly, please do not attack UCLA because of her actions. Universities have no way of knowing people’s cultural or racial values upon admittance. It is a public university and expelling her might actually harm the university more than not expelling her. As it stands there may not be sufficient grounds to even expell her.
March 16, 2011 at 5:22 pm
Sook
The video was ridiculous, the reaction was outsized and out of control, the apology was half-hearted, and UCLA is (still!) one of two UCs where a student can go 4 years without learning about other cultures.
March 16, 2011 at 6:16 pm
USpatriot
2 things that are really annoying that I have seen here by all you so called “Non-racists.” Truly, anyone who refers to themselves as anything other than AMERICAN are being racist, and unpatriotic. You’re not “African American” or “Puerto Rican” American. You are JUST American! All the cultures that meld together in the United States are AWESOME! I love celebrating all of them! But I don’t go around calling myself “Fill-in-the-blank American.” I am an American and we are ALL Americans together. It doesn’t matter who was here first or who settled what land first or ANY of that. That’s what is GREAT about our country.
Number 2: EVERYONE does NOT have a RIGHT to be here. No, absolutely not. We welcome all comers with open arms, but be here LEGALLY. Learn to speak English. Learn AMERICAN customs, as you would expect us to learn yours. BE AMERICAN!
Have any of you dopes actually traveled outside of America? Do you think any other country caters to others the way we do? In Germany, they don’t duplicate every sign in English for us (or any other language actually). In Qatar, if you insult a Qatari official, you can be arrested, deported, and banned from the country for life. If you insult a US official, apparently you’re a hero. Koreans get aggravated that you’re in the country and don’t know any Korean. I’ve been to these places and MUCH more. I am a world traveler and I make a concerted effort to BLEND into and assimilate into each country’s own culture, even if I’m only going to be there for a week.
This girl, no matter how stupid you or I think she is (and I think she’s pretty darn stupid), was exercising her right to free speech. UCLA can’t expel her! She wasn’t speaking as a representative of the school. You can’t abridge her right to free speech just because you don’t like what she says. THIS IS AMERICA! Not Iran! See, not once was I like “all the comments I disagree with should be erased!” I simply voiced my opinion and would like you all to be reasonable and open minded (as you claim to be) and then about what it means to be an American instead of disrespect and GENERALIZING Americans, since Generalizing is the devil (according to what I’ve read here).
Thanks for reading this whole thing if you stuck with it. America the Beautiful! Land of the Free, home of the Brave.
March 16, 2011 at 6:37 pm
Alma Antonio
The fact that any individual in the right mind would sit here and defend a clearly stupid woman is just as ignorant as her. We’ve all been taught since we could remember that hate and racism a disgusting quality. Yet this “UCLA,” tasteless bimbo has the never to go on YouTube? Common. She’s complained about families coming to visit, what does that have anything to do with the library? It’s clear she has a hate towards Asians. She’s mad either one her rich parents bought her a boob job and never came back to visit her the day after surgery or two that they don’t care enough to visit her at all. Besides, why go to the library? There’s enough space in her chest to study, she should have just dove in there for some peace and quiet, or maybe her brain, seeing as there’s nothing but air in there as well.
March 16, 2011 at 6:41 pm
AsianAmericanCollegeStudent
“Truly, anyone who refers to themselves as anything other than AMERICAN are being racist, and unpatriotic.”
I honestly don’t see how acknowledging my ethnicity with my being an American citizen is unpatriotic or racist. Why can I not be proud of both? It is who I am. I grew up in a multicultural home.
“Have any of you dopes actually traveled outside of America?”
I’m sure many folks have. I have. And I never lived in any foreign sector, I lived with locals and assimilated. I learned the languages and cultures of the places I lived.
Simply because people do not agree does not equate to hate or attempted redaction of anyone’s freedom of speech. Without voicing our individual opinions no one would ever be able to find a consensus or common ground.
I know what it is like to be persecuted as an American and as an Asian. And truly what real difference does it make how I choose to identify myself. Again, it does not make me a racist nor does it make me unpatriotic to find a sense of pride in both.
March 16, 2011 at 6:43 pm
thalooch
@USpatriot. The internet is not American.
I think all the cultures that are in the United States are awesome, even if they don’t meld together.
“It doesn’t matter who was here first or who settled what land first or ANY of that. That’s what is GREAT about our country.”
Actually I find that the wholesale destruction of the Native American tribes that existed on these lands, and the continued racism towards the scarcity of indigenous peoples that exist today, is a huge FLAW on our country. We do little to nothing to honor or treasure Native Americans that are living today, even though they posses ancient wisdom that we could so dearly benefit from.
I think there are many countries that welcome visitors with open arms. Perhaps there are few countries where are as many economic opportunities, however I have found that culturally many people from other countries have been far more gracious and inviting, even in bigger cities, than many Americans. Strangers allowing me to stay in their homes, feeding me, etc. Not to say this doesnt happen here, but I haven’t heard of that experience from foreigners.
Don’t get me wrong, I love America, and it is great in many ways, but I don’t think patriotism has anything to do with putting down other countries. The world is getting smaller. It’s high time we stop competing with every country around the world and embracing other countries so that we may work together towards peace and prosperity for all humans and living creatures.
March 16, 2011 at 7:12 pm
Rhonda
Poor thing, talk about BAD MANNERS…!
#irony.
When I teach my *American* children about etiquette, I’ll be sure to highlight the fact that public slamming of other cultures is at the top of the list of ‘what not to do’.
March 16, 2011 at 7:42 pm
USpatriot
@AsianAmericanCollegeStudent
I did not call you out personally in my initial post, but since you feel the need to defend yourself, you must have felt that I was, because something stuck a nerve there. It is not the acknowledgement of ethnicity that is the issue. It is the “fill-in-the-blank first, American second” mentality of so many. Obviously you’ve learned English. Obviously you’re more well traveled than most of the people that have posted here. Just go back and read and you’ll how many people are generalizing about America while talking about how people shouldn’t generalize. You shouldn’t take offense to what I said, because you can’t be the target of it if you’re proud to be an American. You’re not Asian-American though, you’re just American, and you happen to Asian.
I have traveled and lived much like you. To name a few I’ve lived in Germany, Austria, Qatar, and South Korea. I know at least enough of each language to get by in each country and always made an effort to learn as much as possible and use it. Typically, when I would go into a store or restaurant (especially in Qatar) I would be looked upon with disdain. However, once they could tell I was making an effort, they were much nicer and usually went out of their way to help.
Now, go back and read OTHER people’s comments, the one’s that I was actually addressing, and you’ll see that indeed they called for her head on a platter and said the school should expel her. That is indeed a “redaction of her freedom of speech.
Lastly, I urge you to see another point of view and see that identifying yourself in certain ways can only contribute to division and not promote the diverse world that you think you are promoting. I’m not saying you’re bad or you’re wrong! I’m just asking you to think about it from someone’s standpoint who is not an “Asian-American” and would see you (at least in this forum) as being more dedicated to being Asian than being American.
@thalooch: What does the internet have to do with it? It’s a medium of communication in this case. You still can’t abridge her rights, whether on- or off-line…
There are many more country’s that do not welcome foreigners into their lands than do. Obviously, there aren’t very many out there in the world that people want to go to. You nailed it, there are no opportunities anywhere else. In many cases the opportunity does not exist for an outsider to become prosperous and the governments of those country’s make sure that the outsiders cannot succeed to the extent of the citizens of that country. Many country’s also have much more strict immigration laws and some are impossible to immigrate into.
I never said that America was not flawed. However it is a great nation. There are many things in the past that we learned from that were great tragedies. It would be ignorant to believe otherwise. Slavery, the unilaterally terrible treatment of Native Americans, the internment of Americans of Japanese decent during the onset of WWII… However, America’s great accomplishments far outweigh these flaws. Patriotism certainly doesn’t have to do with putting down other countries and I would love for you to show me where I have done that or tried to put patriotism that way. America has been the country from the beginning that has wanted to work together with other nations towards peace and prosperity. Unfortunately, other nations do not always want to work with us. For a long time to come, we’re going to be attacked for that; and people will continue to claim that our desire to work and be around them is actually a desire for American imperialism and world control.
I want to point out again though, one area you should seriously examine again about what you said about how welcoming other countries are to outside people. Even in those countries where they welcomed YOU they were probably simultaneously not welcoming someone from a country other than America and denying them visa status; and sending them back where they came from. That’s the REAL world, but you’ll never hear about that in the media or read it in world culture textbooks.
March 16, 2011 at 7:57 pm
USpatriot
@thalooch:
Actually, before I posted the first time you were the about the only one on here that was talking any sense at all! I agreed with almost everything you had written up to that point. I fear that because of my distaste for the other comments, I may have stated things in a way that was mistaken for either A). Support/defense of the stupid girl, B). Dislike for anything not “American.” Neither of those is the case, as I hope I have made clear at this point.
March 16, 2011 at 8:05 pm
USpatriot
@Rhonda
What you need to teach your “*American*” (Whatever that was) kids is that they indeed are American and they should be proud of that, and that they should be unapologetic about that pride. And yes, that criticizing other countries in mass public communications is not proper etiquette, but to keep in mind, America is always going to be criticized by others in their own mass public communications. John F. Kennedy can’t be quoted enough “Ask not what your country can do for you – ask what you can do for your country.”
March 16, 2011 at 8:07 pm
thalooch
@ uspatriot
thanks for the compliment. I think your emotions may have gotten a little razzled. Your post did come off a little too “pro-USA”, when really this was never even part of the debate, at least not in my mind.
While I do see your point with identifying yourself as X-American or what have you, can possibly create a divide, it doesnt necessarily have to. And on the other side of the coin, I think we are a country built on immigrants, and one that celebrates diversity. It’s a work in progress though, as we are still working on equality just in regards to gender.
However in essence I agree with the sentiment of inclusion and unity. I really like the “United” in United States. I’d really like to see the whole world “United” however, which is why I most often refer to myself as a human being, and maybe sometimes a human bean ;-)
I think there is a way to celebrate and preserve individual culture within the U.S., while also embracing others cultures. I think this requires individuals and groups to invite others that are not part of their culture to participate in cultural gatherings and events.
March 16, 2011 at 8:17 pm
AsianAmericanCollegeStudent
@USpatriot,
Yes, I can see your point about the divisiveness. My initial choice for choosing to identify myself in this particular manner was to establish that I am Asian (a part of the group the young lady from UCLA spoke about) and yet point out that in the grand scheme of racist acts, her video hardly warrants all the hate that it seems to have generated. I treasure my freedom of speech, and to have it, I understand that I have to be okay with all manner of other people practicing it. And just as they have a right to speak their opinions, racist or not, I have that ability to disagree and scrutinize and expose what I feel is wrong or harmful. And even though, she said some tasteless things and made some prejudiced generalizations, she honestly caused no real harm. From my Asian standpoint, or with my Asian heritage in mind, she still does not really offend me all that much. Her words only have the weight we give them. In other discussions, I have been barraged with anger over voicing these views. So I suppose, yes, you did hit a nerve that was raw. And I in turn made an assumption. Boo me.
I am South Korean as well as American (my father American). And despite that in South Korea I experienced a great deal of racism and was not welcome with open arms until people realized I could speak their language because all they initially saw was the difference in my eyes and face. The young lady has experience retribution above and beyond her actions. She is by no means a Hitler. Most people I knew saw her video for what it was and did not apply it as to something that harmed the people in Japan which seems to be the biggest platform. My heart goes out to everyone in Japan or with family affected by this or who have family affected by this. I follow closely and personally know people affected by the events in Japan.
It would have been nice to see this incident become a platform for intellectual discourse on very real issues and not so much a platform for hate and name calling and more prejudice. The comments about her being a white blonde slut or whatever are uncalled for and are simply prejudiced and racist actions in response. It helps and heals nothing.
March 16, 2011 at 8:23 pm
USpatriot
@thalooch
Again, don’t get me wrong. I am VERY pro-American. In the classical cliché way for me it is; God, Family, Country. I have served my country over the past 17 years in different forms, first in the United States Army and then as a civilian employee of both the Department of State and the Department of Justice.
My mistake however… This forum. It was a topic about the comments made by this Wallace individual, but when I see people start to go anti-American on a site like this, it’s not easy to ignore it. For my entire life I have never understood why certain people identified themselves by where they immigrated from (or their ancestors 200 years ago) BEFORE being American. The whole point of it is that America is your country and the other thing is your cultural background. Since the beginning the point has been to meld it (for lack of a better word) into an American culture. Not to keep your own culture as a separate and divided sect living within American borders.
March 16, 2011 at 8:31 pm
USpatriot
@AsianAmericanCollegeStudent
Right on man. I didn’t intend to be as caustic as I was either. I do apologize for that. Can I ask if your father was in the US military? I was for 6 years, but never went to South Korea during that time. I actually spent 90 days there last year while doing work for the US Department of State. It was a very enjoyable time for me and I’m going back again when my current assignment is complete. I also agree with everything you said about the stupid girl (that’s what she is) and the lame video that got everyone worked up. Funny that only about 3 of us now actually care to read anything. The ones we need to be talking to have long since ignored this page after making their one or two comments…
March 16, 2011 at 8:36 pm
Angus Johnston
For my entire life I have never understood why certain people identified themselves by where they immigrated from (or their ancestors 200 years ago) BEFORE being American.
I don’t get the logic of this at all. If I say that I’m a tall person, am I saying I’m tall first and a person second? If I say William Shakespeare is a famous playwright, am I saying he’s famous first and a playwright second?
No. Of course not. In the English language, the adjective comes first, the noun follows. That’s grammar. And as far as significance goes, the adjective is less important (in most cases) than the noun it modifies. So when someone says they’re Asian American, they’re actually saying that they’re American, and that the kind of American they are is Asian.
Which seems to me to be putting the emphasis right where you’d like it to be. So what’s the problem?
March 16, 2011 at 8:54 pm
AsianAmericanCollegeStudent
@Uspatriot,
Truly no big deal. I kind of embarrass myself sometimes when I get involved in these hot topics online.
Ah. I miss travelling so much. I miss Korea a great deal. Did you ever go to Beomeosa Temple? That was my favorite thing to do. My father and I would hike up to the temple every weekend together. It has been far too long. I remember the first time I saw a McDonald’s in Pusan. Then a Dominoes Pizza. It blew my mind.
Yes, he was in the navy in WWII. Manned the amphibians when they invaded Iwo Jima. We moved about when he was a merchant marine. His last job before he passed was supervising many of the ships that transported jeeps and helicopters and tanks to our military in the Middle East.
If I were to be completely accurate in my posting name here, it should be AsianAmericanCollegeStudentMom. I’m back in school after being in the workforce for 15 years. Corrections is just not conducive to raising children right now. And being back in school it is really kind of scary how many people don’t fully grasp the beauty and the fortune that we have as Americans in having law protected Civil Liberties (even though at times they get abused, we still have them). I actually read somewhere in a response to someone who posted some vitriolic comment to a blog that they were called a terrorist. Whoa! That’s a mighty heavy claim for someone just posting something in a comment, no matter what cuss words they used. People have said worse to me, however, they had rocks or bats or fists or knives behind it, and I still wouldn’t call that person or group of people terrorists. I sometimes wonder if we are a little too thin-skinned.
March 16, 2011 at 10:56 pm
CanadianWhitee
I agree with @AsianAmericanCollegeStudent
that the form of cultural conflict that Wallace exhibited is very very mild racism. If someone is deeply offended by schoolgirl comments that were unedited and not rationalized and were mostly just pet peeves, then believe me, you have lived a very sheltered life.
Lets face it, all races and cultures have differences and living together in a multicutural country means we are all going to have to talk to each other.
This girl tried to talk about her peeves and used poorly chosen words.
Life is all about compromises because we are all different and we must meet together somewhere in the middle and agree to some mutually acceptable behavours, otherwise hate and animosity will rule.
March 16, 2011 at 11:12 pm
Ling Long
“I cannot explain what possessed me…” doesn’t sound very sincere. She probably hates the Asian with all her guts now.
March 16, 2011 at 11:18 pm
Ting Tong
“I’d like to OFFER my apology” …okay, she would like to offer her apology. It doesn’t quite mean the same as apologizing.
March 16, 2011 at 11:25 pm
CanadianWhitee
@Ling Long, my wife is Chinese and see laughed at the video. She thought it was funny and stupid. You seem very upset.
Would you please provide an example of what you think would be a suitable apology. It would be a learning experience for me.
Thanks.
March 16, 2011 at 11:32 pm
Lionel
Apart from the Tsunami comment, one other extremely distasteful point of the video was her underlying view that people from Asian backgrounds can’t be Americans – even in UCLA where the majority of Asians are Asian Americans. That only white people like her are true Americans.
Quotes: “hordes of Asians”
“everybody they brought along from Asia”
“here in America, we have American manners” (as if the asian students aren’t americans)
It’s not just about ‘poorly chosen words’. It’s about her entrenched racist attitude that got exposed in the video.
And lastly, “ching chong” jokes are offensive and not funny at all no matter how many times people like Rush Limbaugh say it.
March 17, 2011 at 12:03 am
Joke
you call that’s a apology?come on ,is that a joke?” to the entire UCLA campus”????
March 17, 2011 at 12:04 am
nobody
angus johnston i understand your stand, but u have to understand that if racism comments can be so easily forgiven, then the whole entire world will become even more racist. yes it is true that threats or violence should be stop, however u dont understand how the azns feel when they saw that video. how would u feel when someone said something offensive to u or your whole race? u cant say something so calmly when u didnt take on the azn’s point of view. how would u feel when i call u stupid dumb and retarded on youtube. do u no how big of a issue it would be when u post something up online? i am sry if my comments were offensive to u but plz think before u talk, dont be another alexandra.
March 17, 2011 at 12:05 am
AsianAmericanCollegeStudent
I agree that some people (many comedians, shows, and other forms of media) use racial humor as satire, or social criticism, to expose prejudices and generalizations, or to poke fun at stereotypes illuminating how ridiculous they are. But we have to be careful not to lump it all under one umbrella as “just a joke.” German sociologists, while watching the decent of their own country into the holocaust, described official meetings where anti-semitic rants took place as “organized laughter.”
At the same time, discrimination against Asian Americans has remained largely, under the radar. Margaret Cho, a Korean American comedian was granted her own TV show and the producers hired a consultant to teach her to act more Asian because they feared the audiences would not identify her as Asian because she did not fit the stereotype.
I do not condone Miss Wallace’s actions or words. But I think the responding violence is far beyond what her actions deserve and detracts from those that could illuminate her and others that feel the same. All this violence in response, all these “slut” and “whore” and “stupid white girl” do nothing but further the rift. It’s like turning on your hose to stop a flood.
And though many people don’t like the fact that “freedom of speech” comes up in this discourse, it is essential. It is not in defense of her actions, but in defense of all of our ability to disagree when we see something is not right and needs to be corrected. And in order for all of us to be able to disagree with videos or celebrities or articles or talk show hosts like Rush or Godfrey or Wallace (or even the President), we have to ensure that right is equal and follow the laws set up around those rights. To violate those sets up a sad precedent that may violate those freedoms for ourselves. And in the long run… wouldn’t you rather people who have these ideas speak up so we can correct them rather than allow racism to become a quiet insidious monster?
I know I’ve responded to many of these comments and spoken up a lot on here but this hits very close to home for me.
March 17, 2011 at 12:18 am
nobody
i agree with your comments and i am not trying to say violence should be allow. all i wanted to say was if u r going to say something racist or do something racist, plz do it in a private manner. at some point she does deserve those negative comments (not including threats), or else she wont understand the consequences of speaking in such manner. i am not azn but i can understand their point of view. anyway u all got your opinions and i am not going to change that, however i just want to say that think in someone’s point of view before actually comment on it like nothing happens. ty and apologize
March 17, 2011 at 12:27 am
AsianAmericanCollegeStudent
I understand. My biggest thing, when I worked in corrections the people that acted out were the people that could be corrected. But the people that didn’t act out were the most dangerous and the most potentially poisonous.
For example, when an offender makes a really big knife and flashes it in a threatening manner, it typically means “stay away.” When you do a search and find a fork that has been bent in a way to be support by the palm of the hand and two tines rolled back, it meant to to be well hidden and to quickly and silently kill.
I am not equating her with murder. But I am saying I would rather have racist speech in the open so that it can be addressed and dealt with. Silence it and it can get very scary.
So I suppose this is where we would agree to disagree. No need to apologize whatsoever.
March 17, 2011 at 12:43 am
hobosong
Girl made a mistake…albeit a pretty spectacular one. A lot of anger being expressed would probably dissipated if she had made a SINCERE apology.
March 17, 2011 at 12:49 am
AsianAmericanCollegeStudent
@hobosong
I agree that her apology was really weak. It’s that “I don’t know what made me do it” thing rather than taking full responsibility for her decisions. How funny, just tonight I got fed up with my daughters’ incessant bickering so I had them write letters of grievances to each other then read them out loud to one another. Then they had to respond acknowledging each issue and taking full accountability for their choices and actions.
March 17, 2011 at 12:56 am
nobody
i like your comment AsianAmericanCollegeStudent and i actually did some reading on that just a week ago. In addition it turns out that open speech in a “open global area” would cause the same amount of fundamental issues as silencing it. some of the wars that were happening started from the “open speech” as an excuse. i am not saying we should silence it but release those speech of her in a private manner or inside of her own community. not only would her comment cause pain to others, it also destroyed her own reputation. i hope one day we could find a perfect solution for racism in this world. so plz understand my comment
March 17, 2011 at 1:00 am
AsianAmericanCollegeStudent
@nobody
“In addition it turns out that open speech in a “open global area” would cause the same amount of fundamental issues as silencing it”
That I was not aware of and would like to see these readings as this is a subject that does interest me. I don’t mean this sarcastically or to refute you. I truly would like the information. Just because I initially disagree does not mean I can’t learn something new. Thank you.
March 17, 2011 at 1:05 am
AsianAmericanCollegeStudent
@nobody
Come to think of it… I just read something where when people of like mind get together they tend to further polarize, getting in to inter-social competitions like who can be more Green in their living. In other words, extremists get together and become more extreme. At the time I read this it was being applied to the political divide… but why would this not apply to racism? Perhaps in the same way the meetings of “organized laughter” may have furthered anti-semitic views and behavior.
Thanks again
March 17, 2011 at 1:33 am
nobody
@AsianAmericanCollegeStudent
it is great that i can find someone like u to discuss opinions with. u r right that when people get together it might become a threat, but dont u think speaking out your opinions in a global manner would bring even more people together. everything could happen in this world and if logic could apply to everything then racism would’ve ended a long time ago. and about the reading, i have to ask my professor for it cuz it was a 30 page packet regarding that issue. again i would like to discuss other opinions with u again. ty for reading my comments
March 17, 2011 at 1:57 am
AsianAmericanCollegeStudent
I enjoy learning, even if it is contrary to what I’ve learned before. Which is why I appreciate this public discourse. Please let me know when you get the information.
I am taking a risk here and sticking this out, but I am very curious so here goes nothin: patiencew0@gmail.com
Thank you.
March 17, 2011 at 2:17 am
spiniza
I think a true apology would be to do things to redeem oneself – words are not sufficient. I can think of a few things she can do.
1) Do voluntary social service in a community center in a predominantly Asiian neighborhood for a year.
2) Join the Peace Corps and do a year’s service in an developing Asian Country.
3) Sign up to do voluntary service helping Japanese effors in helping the Tsunami victims.
4) She can record a video announcing which one pf the 3 choices she will embrace and then tell tge world that this she is really sorry for what she did and this is what she will do in redemption amd request the world for forgiveness.
5) A year after she has completed her act of redemption, she can pot videos of all the things she has done to redeem herself and words of appreciation from Asians who have noted her transformation.
Folks – she is young and it is never too late to learn whatever her past shortcomings have been – in actions and upbringing. If she uses this as a defining moment of her life to change herself, this could be a lesson to everyone who harbors prejudices – that one can let them go if one really tried.
I am Asian Indian.
March 17, 2011 at 4:31 am
Cara
ALRIGHT!!! leave her alone already!!! i too found her video completely out of place…but i feel bad for the girl, she’s hated worldwide already. so stop sending her death threats!!!
March 17, 2011 at 5:20 am
Italian Pride
I like how this Irish girl, Wallace, has the nerve to insinuate that being Asian and being American are two different things. Her dad, John Wallace, really taught her well. They have that Peter King mentality that unless you’re white skinned and of European ancestry, you’re not American even if you’re born here. Let me tell you something sweetie, in certain parts of the country there are people who don’t consider the Irish as Americans. President Nixon didn’t like the Irish. Listen to the Nixon tapes.
March 17, 2011 at 7:06 am
1300135
Asians Asians calm down. You’re expecting too much out of this sheltered girl. She’s clearly a psychopath. Lack of empathy for tsunami victims. Grandiose knowledge of American manners, but don’t ever correct her manners. She’ll call you a prude, or say “ching chong ling long ting tong,” or tell you to go back to your own country. On second thought maybe she’s not a psychopath, she might just have it out for “tiger mom,” Amy Chua. Whatever the case, Please Please stop using your cellphones in the library! She might flunk PoliSci and end up in porn! Errr… No no keep using your cellphones!
March 17, 2011 at 9:35 am
USpatriot
@Angus Johnston (WARNING TO ALL: The comment below has NOTHING to do with this stupid Wallace girl, other than a topic that was brought up by it. I hijacked half of this forum about it… Sorry for that).
Hello Angus, In this particular case, I am not so much focused on the order of the wording, or English grammar. I am actually talking about the physical act of placing a foreign culture before Americanism. The wording is just wording and I understand that not everyone that says they are an Asian American particularly feels that way. My point is more that: whether you were born here or immigrated here, you’re American now. You should have respect for America and our ways.
If we want celebrate Christmas out in public, we should be allowed to do that. If your own culture doesn’t celebrate Christmas, why should you try to stop the American way of doing it? That is only one very simple example that I have.
Anyway, it’s not the grammar that bothers me. It is the attitude. Putting something in front of the word American though, could still be avoided, even in the English language. You could simply just say, I’m American. Why is there a need for people to distinguish, in normal every day conversation, that are different than me? Are we not all the same? Shouldn’t an Asian American and a Caucasian American be treated exactly the same way?
March 17, 2011 at 9:52 am
Angus Johnston
@USPatriot: Nobody’s trying to stop anyone from “celebrating Christmas out in public.” What some of us would like to see — and what the Supreme Court agrees is necessary and appropriate — is a separation of church and state as far as official government involvement in religious celebrations goes.
As for the rest, having “respect for America and our ways” to me means having respect for our traditions of multiculturalism and cultural diversity. The Lunar New Year is no less an “American” holiday than Christmas, for instance. None of us are any less American because we retain traditions that were passed on to us from our parents or ancestors who came from overseas, whatever part of the globe those traditions happen to come from.
Yes, we could avoid identifying ourselves by our ethnic, religious, or cultural affiliations, but you haven’t explained why we should. Being an American is part of who I am. So is being a New Yorker, and a white person, and a man. My American-ness doesn’t require me to deny those other parts of my identity.
In a situation in which my ethnicity is irrelevant but my nationality is pertinent, I’ll refer to myself as an American. In a situation in which my nationality is irrelevant but my ethnicity is pertinent, I’ll refer to myself as a white person. In a situation in which both are relevant, I’ll refer to myself as a white American, and so on.
And this is pretty much what I see pretty much everyone doing as I go about my daily life.
March 17, 2011 at 10:44 am
AsianAmericanCollegeStudent
@USpatriot
USpatriot, don’t apologize. I love the fact that through everything else, people that have found opposing viewpoints can discuss here in a civil manner. It’s far more than what I have seen elsewhere.
For the most part I see myself as American. I identify myself, typically when I look at the world through the news as an American. I was raised in America. But at the same time, I am Asian. No one in my life ever looked at me and thought, hey there’s an American. One of the first things that comes up when I meet new people is the discussion of my heritage. Am I Native American? or Asian? It seems at times that in order to have a conversation with someone new I have to tell them what my heritage is. I have had entire correctional facilities ask me with a bet going between floors. I have even been persecuted in public by someone who assumed I was Native. And I think my history and heritage in certain discussions is pertinent and gives some weight and validity to my view. Just as your experiences traveling gives what you say some weight. I love that you lived the way you did in other countries. If I had met you in class or elsewhere I would have loved to pick your brain and hear your stories, about Qatar, Germany etc.
I can see how it would appear divisive. I really can. At the same time, a good deal of how I look at the world is as an Asian. It was part of my culture growing up. It is what both sets me apart and makes me part of an amazing whole. And often it is that slight difference I have in perspective that can lend a whole separate world view and set of ideas to many discussions. The beauty of being here and being what I am is that America is made up of people like me and you and anyone else who may have the experience from a whole separate set of values to bring to the table and in the end we all learn. Saying I’m Asian American is not meant to make anyone feel put out or put down or separated, or even declare loyalty to any one set of Americans over another. I still see us as a whole, Americans, just wondrously diverse. Just as how I appreciate what sets my girls apart, they are still my children and I love them both dearly.
I am buddhist. I don’t care what anyone else celebrates. I like Christmas trees and wreaths etc. Just because other people celebrate Christmas does not hurt my feelings. I understand separation of church and state. My oldest daughter is Christian. Devoutly so and we talk about it all the time. She was told in daycare one day to stop talking about Jesus and color her Easter Bunny Picture. That did bother me. Don’t talk about your beliefs but color something that symbolizes a holiday you charish that we won’t let you talk about. I wish in schools, at least, children could talk about whatever their religion is, or what they celebrate when, without fear of any backlash for people getting their feelings hurt. Rather than a restrictive forum I belief, just like here, it should be an open forum. What better way to teach tolerance?
March 17, 2011 at 10:56 am
USpatriot
Angus,
Separation of Church and State is not specifically constitutional and was not intended by our founding fathers. People everywhere are indeed trying to stop others from celebrating Christmas out in public. It got better in 2009 after it was pointed out that it was happening, but it declined again in 2010. The Supreme Court is wrong. The intention is to keep people from forcing others to participate, not in sterilizing the environment to the point where they are not exposed to the celebration.
Actually there are people who are “less American” because of their choice to be less American. People that refuse to assimilate at all to any American standard, including language, and who sometimes refuse to follow American law. Recently, a man tried to sell his daughter, because in his country, that’s their custom. To have respect for American ways means to assimilate into American culture as I would assimilate into another culture if I decided to leave America and move there.
We should stop referring to ourselves with our affiliations if we’re ready to be truly multi-cultural the way we say we are. Your “American-ness” doesn’t require you to deny those parts of your identity, but it does require you to be American before you’re a New Yorker. In what way is being a man relevant? Should a woman and a man not be treated exactly the same way? Should a New Yorker be treated some different way than a South Carolinian?
There shouldn’t be any situations in which your ethnicity IS relevant. It is only because people keep making it relevant that it makes any difference at all. Why do I have to identify myself as “Caucasian/White” on a form? Why does that matter?
What you “pretty much see everyone doing as you go about your daily life” is not what I pretty much see everyone doing as I go about mine. In the environment I live and work in. Until people stop referring to themselves and identifying themselves as white, black, Asian, etc… people are going to keep treating them as if they are different.
March 17, 2011 at 12:23 pm
thalooch
If I may be so bold to point out that in many places in our country there are still a lot of people, especially white, who do not respect other Americans as being American simply because of the color of their skin, or how they look. This is obvioiusly evident in the case of Ms Wallace. In THIS context, and I think this is an important context, it becomes necessary for some people to refer to themselves as Asian-American, or African-American, and so on. I don’t pretend to know what someone who has grown up as a minority has experienced in this country. I know what I’ve experienced, and I can comment on that. My identity has rarely been questioned, but then again my ethnic background is Italian and Eastern European.
I think this is people feeling the need to establish not just themselves, but their entire cultural and ethnic background as legitimate Americans, in the face of past experiences which have undermined their legitimacy as Americans. Let’s face it, there is still a lot of racism and prejudice in this country. If we fast forward 100 years, this may not be an issue at all, because at that point hopefully racism will be almost nonexistent that no matter what color anyone is, they will not feel insecure or like they lack identity in this country.
I mean you don’t need to look far. The recent anti-muslim protests in Yorba Linda are a PRIME example. There were 2 congressman and 1 councilmember there that were part of a protest filled and fueled with hate speech towards other American Muslims, many women and children too. They were shouting at them to go home.
http://thesocietypages.org/socimages/2011/03/04/video-of-anti-muslim-protest-in-orange-county/
Also important to note was that they kept shouting USA, USA, USA. In this context, their so-called patriotism was actually an attack on another’s ethnic background.
One of the funnier comments I saw on a page from a friend of a friend was “Its’ funny, none of the people in the video that were chanting even looked Native American”
March 17, 2011 at 1:48 pm
bostonH
Unfortunately for her, she’s an example of high gpa/sat does not equal good values or behavior. You don’t see this type of behavior much at high gpa/sat private schools where students feel respectful of their fellow student.
Her rant and many of thesee posts are bad behavior. All of this is an example of bad public education.
March 17, 2011 at 2:02 pm
thalooch
@bostonH:
What on earth are you talking about? I went to private prep school in NJ with some of the most obnoxious self-righteous spoiled little brats you’ll ever meet. When I transferred to public high school in Santa Monica I found the people were far more respectful and accepting of each other.
This has more to do with family values and discipline rather than public school vs private school.
The fact of the matter is there is far less diversity in a lot of private schools.
March 17, 2011 at 3:14 pm
SunnyD
Kick her out, what a disgrace. :)
March 17, 2011 at 4:04 pm
Ling Long
@CanadianWhitee I’m not upset. She has to right to say whatever she wants but it should be done more cautiously. I totally agree with the youtuber tranniebun on here:
March 17, 2011 at 4:06 pm
Ling Long
Lionel, right on man! :)
March 17, 2011 at 4:09 pm
Ling Long
*the rights. Typing error. By the way I’m not the only one on here who thinks what she wrote is cheesy.
March 17, 2011 at 4:13 pm
Tom
She is not apologizing for offending Asians in general or her insensitive comments about te tsunami.
All I saw in her “apology” directed to the UCLA campus was something to the effect of Tony Haywards’s, “I just want my life back”
March 17, 2011 at 4:23 pm
AsianAmericanCollegeStudent
@thalooch thank you.
@USpatriot
“Actually there are people who are “less American” because of their choice to be less American. People that refuse to assimilate at all to any American standard, including language, and who sometimes refuse to follow American law. Recently, a man tried to sell his daughter, because in his country, that’s their custom. To have respect for American ways means to assimilate into American culture as I would assimilate into another culture if I decided to leave America and move there.”
I agree that anyone here must obey the law. It is the same anywhere else. Aside from that, I don’t mind that people live in areas where there are more Chinese or Korean or Italian where they feel comfortable living out their cultural values within the law, where sometimes even menus will be in a different language. I can practically travel to a different country within our boundaries. And I think that is amazing and worth protecting. Because that means I have that same freedom.
And many times it is very difficult for the people that immigrate to learn English. At a certain age we lose the ability to hear individual dialects. You have many Americans (Asian, African, what have you) that fought through some of the worst conditions we cannot even imagine, with little to no opportunity of education and arrived here as adults or middle aged or senior citizens. My mother is one of them. She grew up during Japanese occupation where her own language was forbidden. She had to quit school in the second grade to help feed her family. By all rights, she is illiterate in Korea. At least she had my father to teach her what she knows. Not everyone has that opportunity. We cannot possibly presume to know who does and who does not. And in all respects, South Korea compared the US is TINY. If you travel across Europe you will run from language to language across borders. In the US it is just accent to accent depending on where you go. There are many many factors that play into this. Some benign and in other cases some not.
I however, am content, as long as someone follows the letter of the law, to allow them their own individual constitutionally protected right to practice their own culture. It truly harms me none.
Simply calling yourself Asian American or African American cannot alone bring the divisions that split our country at times both politically and otherwise. I value your opinion, your views, and your experience, but I think it is a tad too simplistic. I have worked in teams of people in all manner of settings from all manner of cultures and no one had trouble seeing us through to a common goal. Yes, there may have been disagreements but through disagreement we learn and we grow and we expand our views without having to leave our own country. And I find that pretty darn cool.
March 17, 2011 at 4:25 pm
karen
UCLA is full of asians. get over it. it’s just the way things are. if she’s soooo uncomfortable with other ethnicities she should have gone elsewhere for college. sorry. that’s just the way things are like how berkeley’s also full of asians. if she can’t deal she shouldn’t be there.
i can not accept her apology and yes there is nothing she can do. that was the dumbest move you can make and she went and did it. i know that people are struggling in japan and her comments were absolutely insulting. i went to a high school where i was discriminated for my color and i’ll be honest with you it doesn’t feel too good. actually, i needed to see a psychiatrist for awhile to get over depression due to racism.
this is a serious issue and that girl needs to get expelled.
March 17, 2011 at 4:26 pm
Phi Nguyen
Poor girl! At this day and age, you can’t just say anything on the Internet! She’s young and she learned her lesson. Time to move on.
March 17, 2011 at 4:28 pm
funny or sad?
[inserted from the site]
However, it seems the original video was not intended to be a one-time hit.
“My daughter wants to start a blog,” wrote Wallace’s dad on his Facebook page. “She’s asking for domain suggestions for ‘Asians on their cellphones in the library!’ She’s shooting videos as I write.”
Read more: http://www.sacbee.com/2011/03/17/3481791/ucla-student-who-posted-anti-asian.html
March 17, 2011 at 4:44 pm
Hana
Other than CanadianWhitee, that is how we all feel too, Tom. She just wanna get the words out there and get it over with… you annoying Asian people.
March 17, 2011 at 5:58 pm
A.T.
@ thalooch …define “Native American”. It makes me wonder when I’m by myself thinking. It brings us back to Columbus journey. I’m sure not many of us on here are what we claimed we are. Either you are white or color, we are American citizens. Let’s say you are a British man living in the US, it doesn’t make you an American because you have blue eyes, blond or dirty blond hair and white skin. You are still British, you are not an American but you are an American citizen. The United States united all kind of people from different parts of the world to one country where we have the freedom to speak and other rights. I really don’t see the point why people are still so races and narrow minded. Those so-called Americans who wear color lens are living in the past.
March 17, 2011 at 6:03 pm
mLarsen
Poor, Alexandria… It was a HUGE MISTAKE, but I almost feel sorry for her… Maybe she could consider some advice… Look @ it this way… You inspired an AMAZING OPUS… It was written ONLY because of you … Jimmy Wong’s brilliant lyrical reply is something of which you may be proud… If I were you, I would just let everyone know how much you LOVE the song, & that you think the man is a GENIUS, which he is … Taking that sensible view would go a long way toward solving your various issues… And, I just read an interview in which Jimmy expressed interest in giving you a BIG HUG (& concern for your difficulties…)… GEE, Alexandria !!! I’m JEALOUS !!! :)
March 17, 2011 at 6:13 pm
thalooch
American Indian. The indigenous peoples of North America whose lands were taken from them by force, bloodshed, violence, and deceit.
To me, indigenous peoples all over the world are more “native” to the lands simply because they have a lot more respect for nature. They have a relationship to nature, one of symbiosis, not of exploit.
Until we can respect the lands that we live on, as much as we think we are “entitled” to them, we are nothing more than rude guests, uninvited conquerors and conquistadors.
So, we can call ourselves whatever we want. We can draw imaginary lines all over the world. However until we can learn to live in balance not only with each other, but with the natural world around us, our time here will be far more temporary than we can hope for it to be.
“Only when the last tree has died and the last river has been poisoned and the last fish has been caught will we realize that we cannot eat money. ”
Cree Indian saying
March 17, 2011 at 6:42 pm
Ben Hoang
I’m an asian and i think every body have make a mistake but will they fix it or not. In this case i will accept her apology. sr for my bad english and i’m not a american. :P
March 17, 2011 at 8:44 pm
A.T.
@thalooch Not too many people understand that. Great minds think alike.
March 17, 2011 at 9:01 pm
George Wallace
She’s my great granddaughter. i’m so proud of her. Them’s all commies.
March 17, 2011 at 11:07 pm
Richard
It’s the general insensitivity towards people in a time of crisis that’s really the most offensive. And the fact that she can’t empathize with people who may be receiving phone calls with updates about loved ones.
For those that don’t think her statements were a big deal, just think on this. I remember back when 9/11 hit. We all probably remember exactly where we were. I had relatives in New York and everyone was on their phones and trying to get through to New York to get updates. And if everyone recalls, the cell phones got overloaded with the amount of phone calls. Just imagine, if during that time, someone told you to take your phone call outside. It probably would have stirred as much anger as this video does now.
March 18, 2011 at 2:16 am
A.T.
Let’s look at the big picture. For those who want to aid Japan in this natural disaster crisis by making a small donation to the American Red Cross: http://livingsocial.com/deals/32115-5-for-10-donation-to-red-cross-relief-efforts?msdc_id=122&ref=DCDeal031611_1_565
March 18, 2011 at 2:48 am
thanhmtl
What bothers me the most when she brought the tsunami matter on. What an insensitive human being she is. Her apology is less than formal and lack of thoughtful wordings like I’m truly sorry for what I said but if you can’t forgive me there’s nothing I can do.
March 18, 2011 at 8:30 am
shizuka
I have friends living in Sendai, and three of them are not here anymore. I will never forgive you.
March 18, 2011 at 2:36 pm
Alex's piMp
Screw you and your apology. If you’re going to apologize then make it an apology. Who wrote that bs apology for you?
It’s basically saying “I just read an apology someone else had written for me since I couldn’t come up with an epiphany so you have to forgive me and if you don’t I really don’t give a ****.”
Your parents are really leaving you to fend for yourself on this one, aren’t they? Yea, they REALLY love you a lot. They should send you to peace corps to serve for a year or 2 in a country where they don’t speak a word of English.
Being able to speak English isn’t a privilege, you’re only speaking a language just like any others in the world and your comments about the tsunami in Japan? How would you feel if someone told you “I know your family & friends are dead or dying but you’re interrupting my 15 minutes interval of epiphany here so please shut you f***ing mouth.”? Exactly…
I am really surprised and disappointed in an institute famous as UCLA to take no action toward her, especially Asian dominated college.
If this rant was about African American, Latin American or even Jewish Americans, we would be having a second coming of LA riot by now.
She needs to be removed from UCLA campus at once!!!
March 18, 2011 at 2:48 pm
thalooch
@Alex’s Pimp. We’ve already discussed how her apology is inadequate. She’s 20 years old, and considering that the video was released on Friday, how much are you really expecting her to transform herself over a weekend?
Furthermore, you’re simply suggesting that UCLA flout the 1st amdendment. While I have yet to hear of anyone agree with her comments, they are still protected under the 1st amendment. Have you considered the repurcussions for UCLA, a public university, in expelling this student because of her comments? Have you considered the legal fees?
No, we would NOT be having a riot over her comments, which although ignorant, aren’t even as bad as comments that are regularly made over radio and television everyday by popular pundits.
March 18, 2011 at 7:21 pm
George
I am Half-Japanese and very proud of it. But I have NO problem with what she said. I don’t like it when people talk in the library but I hate it when people talk on their cell phones in the library. She was stressed out because it’s Finals week. Japanese students know the pressures of taking exams. Cut her some slack and go outside to talk on your cell phone going forward. Arigato.
March 18, 2011 at 8:17 pm
Lionel
To George:
Strawhat argument. Did you really think that all the outrage was over her indignance at people talking in the library?
March 18, 2011 at 10:18 pm
Lionel
*straw man
March 19, 2011 at 1:54 am
AsianAmericanCollegeStudent
@thalooch: well said.
@Alex’s Pimp: I could find worse in people’s comments online every day. Only difference is you have her first and last name on youtube.
March 19, 2011 at 5:50 am
vick Sutanto
It seems that some people are just ignorant and do not care about the situation happening around them. Therefore they can just say whatever they want, without ever thinking that it would be offensive or not. If one of her relatives or family members was there in Japan when the tsunami struck, surely she wouldn’t have made this video. Put your feet in other people’s shoes! Then you’ll understand how it feels!
March 20, 2011 at 3:35 am
B Rant
Free speech in America or should she shut the fock up? She’s now dropping out of UCLA because some call her a racist and threaten her life! Perhaps those people who talk in the library are ignorant that they are suppose to be quiet when in the libraries of America. When in Rome you do as the Romans people! Bottom line is that there are a lot of overly sensitive people out there that don’t really know what racism truly is. They’ve been programed and brainwashed by educators and parents wrong. I don’t think poking fun of how people talk is racist. I know plenty of other races that speak Chinese/Japanese/Korean ect. and sound the same way. So in other words if I was speaking Japanese in a cubical by this girl she’d be poking fun of me as well and my race is CaucASIAN. Chick id e China and the Chinese chicken! Is it racist to say that? I don’t think that bitching about students being loud talking on their cell phones has anything to do with racism either. I’m sure if it was a bunch of girls making noise she would have mocked them, too. I may even poke fun of her for how she talks! Does that mean I hate all girls? Goes to show how stupid some of these kids are that go to colleges/universities and believe me I know because I’ve been to many schools both private and public! Some students can’t even speak or write proper English! There’s nothing wrong with not being able to speak or write English but, if you’re going to get a degree here from an accredited school you should. I mean I wouldn’t expect to graduate from an Italian school without knowing the language. Right?Oh…..and the facilities there should only be used by the tenants! Nothing wrong with mom doing your laundry there but, she shouldn’t be bringing in the nuclear families laundry. I’m sure you’d be annoyed, too if your neighborhood started using your dishwasher leaving you no time to do your dishes. Right?
March 20, 2011 at 3:50 am
Jay
Most of the comments are two sided.
On the one side we have people saying she’s racist and she deserves death threats.
On the other, we have people saying she’s not racist, she has free speech, she apologized, so we should leave her alone and drop the death threats.
Well, I’d like to voice my opinion.
1. On Racism – http://wordnetweb.princeton.edu/perl/webwn?s=racism – I am just curious, she mentioned “American”, “Asian” and “Manner”. Going through the video countless time, make me think, “American” manner is more superior to “Asian” manner? Please tell me this is not racism toward Asians.
2. On Death Threat – This is wrong but understandable. I mean, come on, their parents, relatives and close friends are possibly dead and you are telling them to essentially GTFO of the Library before making a call? For the love of God, have some sympathy.
3. On First Apology – Just to be fair, when I read the first apology, I am pretty certain it was written by her Professor or the Dean of UCLA for damage control.
4. On Second Apology – Again, sounds like she’s blaming the responders for her leaving UCLA rather than being sincerely sorry for what she did.
5. On Apology Generally – Want me to write an apology for you? Cause apparently, you aren’t that good at writing one.
To All Asian People,
I am sincerely sorry for the video that I have posted on Youtube earlier this week. I have inappropriately directed my anger and frustration at the Asian community at large and displayed insensitivity toward those who may have lost loved ones in the Tsunami. I would do anything in my power to rectify my mistake. Please find it in your heart to forgive me. Thank you.
Sincerely,
Alex Wallace
There, simple, sincere and to the point. Is that really hard?
6. On Leaving UCLA – Well, to be honest, you don’t have to leave UCLA. I’d much rather you attend Asian Awareness Program and learn more about the Asian Culture or take a trip to Japan, help out those people and at the same time see for yourself how insensitive you were at a time like this.
March 20, 2011 at 4:05 am
AsianAmericanCollegeStudent
@B Rant
hahahahaha. you’ve got to be kidding me.
the truth is prejudice exists. it exists in small ways and big ways. at it’s worst its racism. she was not simply talking about being annoyed about people talking on the phone. its rude no matter who does it and many do. in her experience it may have been just the asians that did. who knows. we don’t even know if its really every single time. the problem many have are the generalizations and things like… “our college,” as though the other students had earned the right to be there just as she had. if they were from another country then their tuition is very high. if she didn’t intend to mean it that way, it still implies an underlying prejudice.
no, the death threats are undeserved. i don’t understand it. its like turning on a fire hose to stop the kitchen from flooding.
however, she chose enter into a global public forum and say things that she KNEW could be taken in a negative way in regards to race simply by beginning with her qualification about not being, “politically correct” before she starts in. she grew up in america. if she’d been paying attention she should have understood some kind of backlash would happen. she did it for the credit. her face was in the camera. she intentionally played with matches.
she also has a first amendment right. she broke no laws. i can’t qualify her words as hate speech. i initially found it humorous. i think she’s a silly girl that could have learned some more lessons from this. instead of turning it into a dialog, everyone is defeating the purpose of having that right and correcting something. the death threats and hate and racism in response make me more angry than anything else.
the fact that i’m willing to stand up for her constitutionally protected right, yours, or anyone else’s gets me cussed or put down in these forums and that disappoints me even more.
all players could have been better people in this scenario. and they opted to behave otherwise. and it seems even more difficult to meet in the middle anymore.
March 20, 2011 at 4:07 am
AsianAmericanCollegeStudent
@Jay
WELL SAID!
March 20, 2011 at 1:28 pm
Ruthanna Danna
People STILL need to respect the rules and ways of other countries.. Everyone regardless of race should be quiet in the library.. Having to try to study and concentrate when others are talking is very hard to do.. Everyone have some respect, not just her..
She definitely screwed up and was wrong. So are those that trash the courtesies of another nation and culture.
March 20, 2011 at 2:58 pm
Just A Viewer
Hey guys,
It’s obvious there are stereotypes everywhere. She’s not the only one to make jokes like this…about any race in particular. I think the only thing that that was truly offensive–and I admit, I’m asian..wasn’t her lack of accuracy in the depiction of the asian language, or even the fact that she played a race card during the video at all. I’ve heard them, and made them myself as I’m sure others have with stereotypes focused on their heritage just because of the fact that they’re clearly hyperbolic. It was the fact that she found her Poli-Sci final more important than the phonecalls being made to a country whose devestating trauma impacted the lives of PEOPLE’s–not just asians, Families AND FRIENDS in general. If it were a different country, of a different race, the fact that she chose to ignore the concept of general humanity and perspective for what would have been truly more significant during this tragic time was out of line. I’m not even Japanese, and not even slightly offended by her choice of perspective of the asian race–during the time of her frustration–but the fact that she targetted individuals who were clearly worried about the base survival of their parents, cousins, maybe even brothers, sisters, or children within their families was enough to make me think what she considered to be “American Manners” weren’t based on the rest of America or it’s historical and present status as of today…which I’m sorry to have to state the obvious, is composed of a multitude of races whose heritage and backgrounds helped to mold that which composes American societal foundations. I mean, we all go to college. And–having been to Japan and to other asian countries as well as various others, the idea of “talking in libraries” which someone stated above, was not inherent to the asian culture, is actually a common thread throughout the world merely out of general respect. At our library, people of all races tend to pick up their phones–usually its just based on the individual in that case. These people, who were appropriately of a similar background, were just seen in this instance to make a myriad of phonecalls because of the fact that they were all concerned about the lives living in a country they were from/associated with. I mean, yes freedom of speech. But, really, even jokes about the Holocaust or major World War’s in which massive amounts of lives were lost mean walking on eggshells. This, JUST happened. These people, JUST found out or were trying to find out if, maybe people were alive? Or if they needed money wired to them? Or hell, just to give comfort! If there was a huge epidemic of a deadly virus or fast-moving cancer happening in another part of the world, would she still have the audacity to tell them their being insensitive to her need to study through the obviously hypocritical manner in which she did it? The answer would be, who knows. But she did it for those students in the library that day, and that’s what was upsetting. I myself, dont have relatives or friends in Japan, which I think anyone would be grateful for–but still, would have enough human concern and understanding over the possibility that I, or anyone else, COULD have. That theres a difference between being thankful, and being outright ignorant and abusive of the fact that they wouldn’t have to worry about it. She was probably annoyed, yes. Everyone gets to that point and finals dont help the case either. But if her family was in Japan–for a trip maybe, I highly doubt she’d see how her Poly-sci class or anyone else’s finals were somehow a higher priority than lives at stake. Also, death threats, yeah, taking it a bit far. I’m sure people are still making jokes about asians and arent getting letters or phonecalls. But she was mocking individuals who, Im sorry, had more of a right to open their mouths to make a couple phonecalls to their families than she did to embarass herself, and the campus she so fervently spoke on behalf of in that Youtube Video. I personally feel sorry for her family, but the impact that video made on her shouldn’t have been a surprise considering the proximity to time in which the Tsunami occured and the actual contexts of those whom she was complaining about. It’s tough, because she clearly isn’t the sharpest tool in the shed–based on her poor use of logic in her video to justify her perspective of both that which occured around her and even herself, but really. A public video. On youtube? I wouldn’t want to be her right now. It’d be tough for her to get into even a different campus because of one tactless misteke. I say, goodluck to everyone–her, her family, and hey, anyone who has ever had to experience a massive tragedy of any sort that was mocked or overlooked, because there isn’t a doubt that something in her will have to change after this.
March 20, 2011 at 4:16 pm
Ruthanna Danna
They should have gone outside to speak on the phone.. I am grieved over Japan and have close in law relatives there.. But, they could have handled it better.
March 22, 2011 at 5:00 pm
Mel
What concerns me most is that this girl obveously got nothing from her teaching at the university. As a poli Sci. student, you would think she would have thought her actions through. For singling out a whole race and secondly her future. I would love to see her get a job in any career she was going towards being a poli sci. student. oh yea. good job girl for making Americans look more ignorant than the rest of the world already thinks we are. You have done your country well. Now go photo shop some more photos of yourself, you might get a career as a porn star or something.
March 23, 2011 at 1:00 am
nwaf
if you hate asians fine but why would you make a 3 minute video about it online with your face showing like damn women….. at least use your brains and cover your face or keep the webcam away from you so no one would know who you are……. as in the apology i say weak: apologize to the asians and if they forgive you then they are a good sport…..
March 23, 2011 at 9:50 am
Britainese
I was angry when I saw the video but I must say that I think calling her a porn star or a stripper or wishing her dead is pretty childish and the easy option. However, I do think her apology is the weakest I could have imagined, blaming some kind of possessive force for her actions rather than taking responsibility and it felt like she’d spend all of one minute writing it. You’d think that with all her brains that she would have thought to hire a PR consultant to write it.
It makes me sad that there are still people who think like she does.
March 23, 2011 at 7:00 pm
Go and Hide
Hey Dear Ms Alexandra Wallace.
I believe now you are thinking about how to make yourself completely different so others wont be able identify you. Acutally It is easy. First move out of LA. Go and make your hair black and try to get your skin yellowed and wear a pair of black contacts…anyway, try to make yourself look just like Asians so people wont be able to find you and break in your car, your apartment or do something extremely bad on you. You will all of suddenly feel it is really good to be an Asian at this time! ha ha ha…
March 23, 2011 at 7:02 pm
thalooch
guess what, there’s about a .0001 % chance that she is even reading this blog. She’s probably in her hometown hiding at home with her family and simply trying to forget the whole thing while busily writing applications for other colleges.
March 24, 2011 at 2:54 am
Another Aisan
I agree that Apology was weak and just didn’t convince me she meant it,
It was more like something that she had to do.
While I will agree that Being Korean I found that that vlog distasteful and Offensive, But I really don’t think she should be expelled for it.
When you really think about it though what she did was stupid in every way. But the people sending her Death Treats over something like this is just as stupid, and those people are no better.
March 24, 2011 at 9:11 am
Run and Hide
@thalooch
You are probably right. But you know it is so hard for her to find any decent school without a “hordes” of Asians. She is now in a very bad shape. She tried to get through her final study now she got an even better result. congratulations to Ms Alexandra Great Wall Ace.
March 24, 2011 at 10:37 am
LKY
@ Zqmbfmbg
if YOU cared to watch the video you would have known that yes she was complaining about people talking on their cell phones in the library but she claims that it is only asians that do so…and i’m pretty sure if she were complaining about muslims in the library it would have provoked the same response among the community because whoever you’re singling out it’s still wrong. maybe the people bothering her that day by using their cell phones in the library were asian but how does that make it a fact that only asians do this and it is because asians don’t understand american culture or as she puts it manners? and if she was really complaining generally about how it is rude when people use their cell phones in the library, what was the point of bringing up that she has noticed that asian students often have family members come over to help them do laundry or cook food? and what was the point of using the phrase “ching chong ting tong…?” this is why people are upset. she has generalized the act of a few people annoying her that day to an entire race and has used that as an excuse to say horrible things about that race…that’s called racism. she’s trying to use asians as a scapegoat for not being able to study for her poli-sci exam but she was able to sit, completely uninterrupted for a whole 5 minutes while she made that video…hmm i could have sworn hilter tried to use another population of people as his scapegoat. she is ridiculous and ignorant and so are you for trying to justify her rant.
March 24, 2011 at 11:43 am
thalooch
@Run and Hide
She said she was going to leave the school, thats why I said that. Now I don’t know whether or not this has happened, as I haven’t heard any followup.
What do you mean she got an even better result on her finals? Many students haven’t even received final grades yet.
March 24, 2011 at 9:25 pm
THE TRUTH
STFU IN THE LIBRARY. DUH.
March 24, 2011 at 9:30 pm
The Wave
HORDES OF ANNONYMOUS ASIANS POSTED DEATH THREATS AGAINST HER.
BASICALLY PROVING HER POINT.
March 24, 2011 at 9:34 pm
thalooch
Why does it always seem that when people use all caps they have nothing of substance to contribute, and often make spelling errors?
March 25, 2011 at 1:58 pm
ritzi murphy
@ Jay: Kudos! Very well said..
To all Asians out there like me.. really, it was an affront to our ethnicity but let’s teach all those other racists out there that they are dead wrong to belittle us because WE are educated and raised well by our parents. WE need not resort to Violence. WE need not stoop that low just because someone was very ignorant of our culture and treat US like second class citizens of this country (minority). I’m pretty sure this event has taught everyone that every individual is responsible for the consequences of his/her actions irregardless of race, color, education, religion etc.. Ms. Wallace has made her bed so she can now sleep on it.
March 26, 2011 at 7:37 pm
andres
There is something very sad and destructive about the whole experience and not just the girl’s comments. There is no question that she is very ignorant and that her comments were overwhelmingly racist. However, what happened after is much worse. She received death threats, tons of harassment and she had to drop out of UCLA. There is a concept in pedagogy called “Teachable Moment”. this is where educators use comments that students make to create a valuable learning experience. The girl’s video could have been used to create an awesome lesson in racism that she could have participated in and discovered her own racists beliefs and how they harm her and others. Instead, she was harassed and forced to drop out. As a result, she will continue to be racist, and her dislike for immigrants will grow further. UCLA is supposed to be a highly progressive place and at the top of the food chain in terms of pedagogy with a bunch of world known educational gurus in all fields. In this instance it demonstrated that it is a highly mediocre university that cannot prepare its attendees to handle racism.
March 26, 2011 at 7:54 pm
thalooch
that’s a very narrow viewpoint andres. Public universities don’t babysit people, and her CHOICE to drop out is her own. It also has not been confirmed yet, that is just what she said she would do.
Her actions are her own responsibility. Not the responsibility of UCLA. Why does everyone want to consistently belittle and degrade UCLA as a university based on one students actions? You could have chosen to blame her parents, or her family, or the community she grew up in. Maybe even her friends.
I don’t think any university aims to prepare its student body to “handle racism” Why should they? They should invest precious resources teaching students how to handle something that is dying out as we speak??
March 26, 2011 at 9:43 pm
Sophis
As an Asian, I found that while the video was a bit racist / prejudice; it was more amusing than anything… but what was more offensive was her apology. It’s not the UCLA campus that should have been apologized to exclusively, it should have been the Asian community at UCLA. Not to mention victims and those influenced by Tsaumni disaster, she should have posted an apology world wide via Youtube. It should have been a world wide community.
When you are a person who is very worried if a family member is injured or hurt during the Tsaumni and your cell phone is your contact medium, you aren’t going to care about how loud or inconsiderate you are being at the library. This goes for anyone whose experience any type of disaster.
But what is scary or equally as dumb too is also how the UCLA campus have reacted to her video by executing rape / death threats from students? Yet they act like they are above her. All it did was perpetuate more racism and sexism and the girl’s probably scared for her life.
She’s the girl who happens to make the unwise decision to go public about it, when I truly believe that there are more racist students / faculty across all universities but they just don’t get caught. And professors who get away with saying even more racist things but no one gives them a hard time due to their authority.
I’m not sure what forgiving this girl entails, but I personally believe that the best thing to do is just ignore it. And not send her death threats or rape threats and make remarks about how being American is bad. All that does is make the distinction gap bigger between races and the division wider between people of all color. She made a stupid mistake.
It would also be time to change into a different major. Totally failed as a political science major. Another sad thing is that the clothes she wears are probably made in China by some poor little kid’s hands due to poverty.
March 26, 2011 at 9:48 pm
thalooch
The insinuation that ANYONE affiliated with UCLA in any way made death threats towards this girl is absolutely fabricated and ridiculous. Anyone who has gone to UCLA or is currently going to UCLA knows this is something that is nearly impossible.
UCLA students, staff, faculty, or alumni would not engage in such behavior. There are no claims or evidence to substantiate that death threats received were from anyone affiliated with UCLA.
I have gone to UCLA, and I know a lot of Asians at UCLA, as well as a lot of people in general. I have not even heard of one person that was angry enough to make such comments. Most people just think she is ignorant, stupid, and laughs at her.
March 27, 2011 at 12:27 am
andres
thalooch: I am not suggesting that UCLA babysits anyone. I am simply arguing that the video opened up a good opportunity to examine racism as a pedagogical task and that UCLA attempts to have Alexandra participates in these examination of racism.
I don’t believe that proposing that UCLA as an entity promotes anti-racist work emerging out of racist and ignorant acts is narrow minded or an act of babysitting. Rather, I see it as an act of deconstructing racist behaviors and reconstructing them into educated, informed and anti-racist behaviors.
March 27, 2011 at 6:17 am
thalooch
andres,
and where might the funding come for such an endeavor?
i’ll tell you, from nowhere.
and without that, no one is going to go out of their way to do extra-curricular work so that one ignorant student might learn the error of her ways. And even if there was funding, nothing happens overnight in an institution with as much bureaucracy as UCLA. Forms would still be sitting on desks as we speak.
no one is going to argue that its not a teachable moment. But someone has to DO that teaching, and quite frankly no one in a position of authority is going to simply volunteer their time to do that or be so audacious as to ask someone else to volunteer their time.
March 28, 2011 at 8:59 am
Al
LOL! I wonder how long it will be before she appears on a “web redemption” sketch in Comedy Central’s Tosh.0 show. Anyway, I’m not going to say much about this Wallace girl and what was going through her mind when she did this because enough has already been said about that. But I just wanted to call out the few of you morons who have posted here in support of her.
To PEOPLE ARE EVIL, yes, “ting tong, ling long” is a sterotype, but it is a RACIST stereotypical gesture in mocking a language and thereby a culture, and this Wallace shrew needs to be harassed/threatened/mentally tortured for all that she offended with her racist insensitive remarks. This is an entirely just form of retribution and punsihment for the likes of her.
To US PATRIOT, the hell with you and your bullsh!t! The founding fathers were a bunch of slave-owning racist bastards, and I don’t give a flying f*ck as to what their intentions were. The America that is flaunted as being so “great” today is supposed to let everyone live the way that they intend and not be discriminated against because of it. So it doesn’t mean that we all need to be forced into celebrting Christmas or conform to any other predominantly White/European traditions. If I want to celebrate Chanukah, Ramadan, Kwanzaa, or anything else (or even nothing at all for that matter), then that is my right AS AN AMERICAN to do so! And it sure as hell doesn’t make me any less American, except perhaps to cultural bigots such as yourself. So do us all a favor and get your old-school racist way of thinking out of our America you stupid prejuidiced son-of-a-b!tch.
To B RANT, you want to exercise “free speech” do you? Well, sure go right ahead you dumb racist f*cktard, but be prepared for a swift JUSTIFIED reaction to what you say! That is the TRUE American way you hate-monger enabling piece of sh!t.
If there is anyone else that want to continue supporting this dumb b!tch or the concept of being proudly racist, feel free to respond and I’ll gladly tear you a new one!
April 1, 2011 at 12:47 am
SG
I’m Japanese and ,of course, I’m Asian,too.and I watched her video many times but I couldn’t find big problems about what she said and I did not find what she said offensive or “racist”. I agree with Sophis that the video was more entertaining since she speaks like your typical L.A. valley girl airhead bimbo!
It’s only natural that she complained about stupid barbarians who are lack of common sense,if what she said was true.
Even normal kids know how to behave in public places,let alone ,that’s a natural thing for college students to understand what good manners mean in public let alone in a library.
I do think it is absurd that people are threatening this woman and her family and posting her personal private information because of the video. You may not agree with what she said but
April 1, 2011 at 12:48 am
SG
I do think it is absurd that people are threatening this woman and her family and posting her personal private information because of the video. You may not agree with what she said but that does not give you the right to post threats against this woman, her family, or post her personal private information.
April 4, 2011 at 7:09 pm
andres
thalooch
you don’t need to get funding to engage in antiracist activities. I bet that UCLA has lots of groups that do this on a regular basis. There are also tons of faculty who devote their lives to antiracist work. If students and professors were invited to design and participate in an antiracist effort to educate students regarding this, they would all participate.
The question to me is if UCLA as an institution believes that antiracist education is something of their interest and simply promote it. I am sure that they promote and spend plenty of resources on homecoming and stuff like that. they also spend time on celebrating mayor holidays.
All it would take is for the admin to ask a group of dedicated students and professors to work on a model for promoting antiracism.
April 5, 2011 at 4:36 am
FeedMyEgo
Really? An earthquake and tsunami hits Japan and all of a sudden all the Asians at UCLA are calling their family??? Are you kidding me? This girl’s rant was a small little hate speech clearly to belittle Asians for who they are having no remorse for the thousands of lives lost in Japan. When we lost the thousands of lives during the 9/11 attack…that was heartbreaking and that’s only a fraction of the casualties compared to Japans loss. The bottom line, innocent lives were lost and they didn’t deserve it. For Ms. Wallace to understand the devastation overseas and to make such a video is like kicking someone who is already down to stay down.
Really…if someone stepped out in front of the million man march back then and said the “N” word, I’m pretty sure they wouldn’t tolerate it. For someone to say “Ching-chong-ling-long” on youtube is just asking for it. I don’t know why it comes to a surprise that she’s gotten death threats. Let’s not try to portray the Asians as the ones who are in the wrong for making death threats.
April 5, 2011 at 12:12 pm
thalooch
Andres,
Look, if you want to pretend you know everything there is to know about public universities, their budgets, their funding, the time that students and professors have to spend, then I’m not going to convince you otherwise. But, from my experience, and this is the experience of a student activist on the UCLA campus, there simply is not the resources to start some kind of anti-racist campaign overnight.
Even if such efforts were going on, you wouldnt hear about them at all. The fact of the matter is that this is a VERY demanding university. Most students are simply busy trying to get good grades, and have little time for extracurricular activities.
UCLA does NOT have lots of groups that “do this on a regular basis” because racism is not enough of a problem on this campus that people need to do this. We have a population of rougly 65,000. Sure, there are going to be a few bad seeds. Its not an efficient use of resources or time for students, professors, and administrators to try to educate what amounts to 1 in 10,000 students, or something like that.
Furthermore, the fact of the matter is that UCLA DOES work on antiracism, you just don’t choose to see it. It’s called celebrating diversity. Also, there are many cultural student groups that try to educate others about diversity and advocate tolerance.
Also, racism is something that becomes engrained in people from an early age, passed down from their parents. The university can only do so much. They cannot mandatorily make students take antiracism classes, or diversity classes. Eliminating racism from society is part of evolution, and I think we’re doing a decent job of it. Considering how racist and intolerant this country was just 50 short years ago, I think we’ve come a long way, and I’m quite sure that UCLA has had a lot to do with it.
Our campus has always been a welcoming place for students of all colors. Think back to Jackie Robinson, think about Kareem Abdul Jabar. Martin Luther King Jr. came to speak on this campus, something we are very proud of.
One incident from a foolish spoiled and sheltered northern california girl should not tarnish the image of UCLA, unless you choose to let it.
April 6, 2011 at 7:27 pm
andres
thalooch
You are right. I don’t know much about UCLA students.
I am glad that racism is not a problem in UCLA campus to prompt the university to engage it. I also wonder how is LA overall and if the university considers racism in the city something of concern. It may be that it isn’t a big problem in LA either. Can’t judge, I only be there once. and I saw lots of traffic but cannot pass judgment about the city based on one quick trip.
I know that there is racism in El Paso, my community, in the local University and in various other cities that I’ve been too.
BTW, celebrating diversity is not anti-racist work. Eating burrito, sushi, barbecue ribs, listening to mariachis and jazz and having Cesar Chavez Day and MLK is not anti-racist work. It is cultural tourism. Also, since you probably have special days for various cultures, you probably have one day or week to celebrate white culture. I guess that during that day or week, UCLA teaches about George Washington and a few other American heroes during that week.
We are not that fortunate in El Paso. There is one week for Hispanics, Cesar Chavez and that sort of stuff. There is also a black history month. The rest of the time is white history and culture. Worse of all, it is not referred as white history and culture even though over 90% of the characters are white men. It’s as if people of color must not have contributed in any way to the culture, nor have women. Indigenous people are rarely mentioned or studies and people no very little about indigenous cultures and the contribution of minority communities.
I’m glad that all this is already covered in UCLA.
BTW, there is nothing to celebrate in anti-racist work because racism is devastating. 400 of slavery, poisoning of migrant workers with pesticides, exterminating indigenous communities after stealing their land, enslaving Asians to work in the railroad, Nuking Nagasaki and Hiroshima and Napalming Vietnam and Cambodia are not things to celebrate. These are things to study and understand to become critical citizens.
I guess that UCLA is doing all this, since an academic institution of such reputation probably teaches comprehensive history and political science to all students. But, I guess, they may not have done such a great job if students think that anti-racist work consists of celebrating diversity.
April 6, 2011 at 7:32 pm
thalooch
its all a matter of what you focus on. If no one were ever to watch Fox news, would it not go away? The same is true for racism. So, people choose to focus on celebrating the beauty of different cultures.
In my opinion, this is anti-racist work. In your opinion, this is not. Each to his own.
April 13, 2011 at 9:10 pm
WTF?!?
Okay I’m not even ASAIN and I don’t accept her apology……….that’s BULLSHIT and she needs to start putting down that fake hair fake boobs and loads of makeup because shes fake as FUCK
April 17, 2011 at 7:07 pm
whyihateasians
I see Asians can be racist with whites and anyone who is not asian, be rude and act like total pricks, but god forbid you do that back at then. Then they dont like it. They come out like roaches and all together eat anyone who is not asian alive.
She has the right to say whatever she likes, if asians dont like to be mark like jerks then they should start respecting other races, too. Typical, is always about them. In my school these asians are sooo nasty and rude to other people. They have tell me they dont like anyone who is not asian, and now that someone says something (finally) she has to say sorry. F. this i wont say sorry at all. you all suck, you manipulative, play mind games, and are nasty to anyone who is not asian. She got crusify for this, but in the feature more and more people will come foward, and you wont get it your way. jerks.
April 17, 2011 at 7:34 pm
whyihateasians
Hypocrites.You’re offended about racist people, but you all arethe most racist people i have ever met against whites, Hispanics, or anyone who is not asian. COme stop acting like victims and say it, say it out loud in this blog that you hate everyone who is not asian!. Fakes!
April 20, 2011 at 2:50 am
MINE
I’m part “Asian” before that word was even used to describe me. The term when I was a child was “Oriental”, so that dates me. I’ve seen racism in my life, mostly in childhood, and being a half-breed (as Cher once sung about in her song) I find this entire event by Ms. Wallace silly. The parodies of her on youtube are great responses to this nonsense. I don’t see her as racist more than just a fool who cannot control her emotions, much like the people reacting to this. What she said was stupid, and offensive to a point, but this country allows freedom of speech and not freedom of threatening to kill someone. If one wants to fight the good fight against racism, start somewhere else besides using Ms. Wallace’s ignorant remarks. There are much bigger problems out there. If anything, pity her.
July 17, 2011 at 12:04 am
Jen
Why are people making such a big deal out of it? im asian but the way i saw it was— a major comedy sketch. :) Really now, if you have time to complain about others, you should use that time to d something about it. Why complain to other people over the internet when you should get up and take approach? Right now, im surprised the girl hasnt killed herself yet! The only issue i have with this, is her apology. I mean, even if she only made the apology because she was forced to, she should have at lease TRIED to make it sound like she cared. Then, she wouldnt have to have all these people complaining about it. Besides, the only reason she didnt apologize to anyone outside the UCLA campus was probably because she cant go anywhere else now Lol. She should just “disappear” for a period of time come back a few so-and-so’s later and just watch—- no one will even remember ;) the only people who actually have a right to complain are the people who’ve suffered do to the tsunami. Other people who are complaining probably just need something or someone to direct their anger at c=